Inactive mylot friends/ Do you delete them? Write a private message? Do share ..

@dana234 (2116)
Spain
August 27, 2007 11:18am CST
your thoughts, please. Have you got people on your list who haven´t been active for weeks or even months? When do you suppose that they have left mylot for good? I haven´t been here much lately, because I´ve been having trouble with the computer. It just goes on and off when it feels like it. Driving me mad apart from the stifling heat here.
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@raijin (10371)
• Philippines
27 Aug 07
i delete those of which I though didn't provide me good discussions, as I respond on discussions most of the times. Also those who don't comment on my responses, as I would think that they are just here to earn and not to discuss. I save inactive members whom I think gave me good discussion to respond at, as I don't want to lose them in case they come back here. I treasure those who treasured me, discard those who ignores me!;)
@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
27 Aug 07
That´s a good way of going about it. I don´t mind if my responses don´t get a comment every time, but if the poster doesn´t answer anyone, especially if a question has been made it´s a different thing.
@raijin (10371)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
Yep, I just put a thought about it since I might be deleting the wrong person. There are times that after deleting them, a day or two will pass and they resurface to get active again. So I make sure that those I deleted are those whom never even put a time in reading or commenting on my responses on their discussion, I don't mind them ignoring my own discussion, but please not my responses.
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• Philippines
3 Sep 07
I have never deleted anyone from my list of friends. many keep on adding and I just welcome them. I had reached a number of 1400 plus friends. As long as they are not doing anything to harm me, I wont have plans of deleting anyone among them. Its better to have more friends although some may not be active anymore.
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@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
6 Sep 07
You´re right, it´s doing no harm having friends on your list who are not that active anymore.
@mummymo (23707)
2 Sep 07
Hi Dana honey! Well I have thought of deleting some friends who have not been active for many many months but I always worry that they will come back and feel hurt that they have been deleted from peoples friends lists! As for you sweety I am sorry I haven't seen you for a while but I knew there would be a good reason for it! Hope your computer starts to behave itself! xxx
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@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
6 Sep 07
That´s how I feel about it. You are as kind and understanding as always. The computer is getting better, it´s my health which is playing me up now, lol. XXX
@gabs8513 (48708)
• United Kingdom
28 Aug 07
I still have a few on the List that have not been active for a long time I am hoping that they might come back one Day they joined the same time as me but I do not believe that they will ever be back which is sad I have deleted a few though that I knew for definite will not be back
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@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
28 Aug 07
I know of some members who said they won´t come back, but I´m still reluctant to delete them. They might pop in now and again. I agree with you it´s sad...
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
28 Aug 07
I have many friends who are totally inactive, or are just a little active. There is nothing I can do about it. I don't PM them , or encourage them to remain active. It's their choice. I think they are fed up with the lpow earnings. I just ry to get on My Lot & continue to respond & start discussions. I like my friends here.
@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
28 Aug 07
I also believe that some members left for the reason you mentioned. Keep up the good work, jennybianca.
@Thoroughrob (11748)
• United States
28 Aug 07
I go through them once in a while and delete the ones that have not logged in for at least a month. That way I can get more that are more active without making too many pages.
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@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
28 Aug 07
It sounds like a good idea of solving the problem. I´ll bear it in mind, :-) but I might wait a bit longer than a month.
@freebee19 (212)
• India
27 Aug 07
i just leave them .. may be they can come back one day..
@dana234 (2116)
• Spain
27 Aug 07
You never know...