How do you feel about people "dropping in" without calling first?

@LCecelia (1124)
United States
August 27, 2007 6:15pm CST
Me? I prefer a little warning...say a week so that I can clean my house! :-) Not really, but seriously I would prefer some notice. Family I don't mind so much because they know me and they are not going to go through my house and point out all the dust...at least I don't think so. Well my sister may. For strangers, ie people who I don't know very well or who had not previously been to my home, I prefer some notice. What about you? Do you like "surprise" guests?
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@luvcatzzz (207)
• United States
27 Aug 07
people know if they don't call first, i don't answer the door. period. i don't care who ya are!
@Cammeel1 (372)
• United States
28 Aug 07
lol Good for you!
@LCecelia (1124)
• United States
28 Aug 07
LOL LOL Serves them right. :-)
• United States
28 Aug 07
I definitely prefer people to let me know that they're coming by first. It's not so much of a problem since we've moved, and no one has seen our place at all, but where we used to live, everyone knew where it was, and people would stop by at all hours of the day and night! The ones who came by late at night were always the ones that I disliked the most, because I was usually in bed by 10 p.m., and didn't want to get up just because someone was banging on the door.
@LCecelia (1124)
• United States
28 Aug 07
That could be another topic for discussion...people who drop by all hours of the day or night!!! I try not to call people past 10:00pm let alone go to their houses at the time, except maybe for a party and then again if a party starts after its dark and I'm not already out, chances are I'm NOT going to be at that party!!
@derek_a (10874)
28 Aug 07
My wife goes crazy if people call in without notice. She likes to have the house clean, as you do. I'm not too bothered, because, whilst we may be a bit untidy sometimes, I think it is OK. But that, I am told, is typical of a man :-)
@LCecelia (1124)
• United States
28 Aug 07
So true, women like notice...plenty of notice of impending visits. :-) I'm not a super neat freak, I think a little bit of the "lived in" look is OK at times.
@Cammeel1 (372)
• United States
28 Aug 07
Not at all! I want to know if you're coming ahead of time. Even my own Mom or a best friend, just call me first! ugh
@LCecelia (1124)
• United States
28 Aug 07
As I said my family I can over look but someone who I don't know very well had better call first!! :-)
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Aug 07
Hi Cecelia, Yep, I don't like people come by too suddently... You know, my living room is kind of a secret for me, I don't wish some one,even my best friend break in & see my another part:) B.rgds, Andy
@LCecelia (1124)
• United States
28 Aug 07
LOL LOL. Secrets have to be tightly guarded. Pop ins