boyfriend had a quarrel with his father yestoday

China
August 28, 2007 9:38am CST
yestoday when at the table, there was an unhappy argue between my boyfriend and his father and they even shout at each other. i've never experienced such kind of thing since the first time i went his home last year and i felt embarrassed at that time. have you ever met this kind of thing? did you feel embarrassed? how did you act?
1 response
@migenKC (792)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
i had the same experience as you had... my boyriend spent his tuition fee on somethings instead of paying it to the school cashier.. we were classmates that time and he tried to lie and make some alliby.. he told to his parents that teh tuition increased by a thousand just last month bcoz the computer laboratory updated its operating sytems.. haha.. and so.. his parents asked about it. i told them the same lie.. huhu.. i was asked by my boyfriend to do so.. and i did... parents are not stupid not to know what is an alliby and truth... but they understood my stand.. they shouted my boyfriend while i was on their computer doing some of our assignments. i pretended i didnt hear anything... and my boyfriend told me to go home... he doesnt want me to hear or see things like that. my bf's parents are very open.. they dont mind who ever is there.. they always do or act by the way they really are.. and they do whatever they think must be done. my family is diffirent from them but i understand it.. there family had trials that made them like that. just like each and every family. so dont worry about things like that.. all you have to do is to understand and do what ever you think is right... but make sure think of the things that you also want to impose on your own family.. if you want it to be like your bf's family or like your family.. have a nice day
• China
23 Sep 07
it was a embarrassing thing. only thing did you was to keep clam. maybe you choose avidance.
@migenKC (792)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
hehe.. it was embarrassing but i accepted it anyway.. everything that my boyfriend owns is mine also.. ;) his family might be different than mine but it doesn't mean they aren't good people.