Love

August 28, 2007 1:09pm CST
I have a relation with 2 men.They don't know it from each other and i like to keep it that way. What you think should i stop ad tell them or go on and just have the fun i am having know ?
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13 responses
@solkitt (45)
• Romania
3 Sep 07
I can't believe all those ppl replyed you should go on with it!!! What's wrong with the world today? Is there no more honesty? Is this the way things work?! Me i believe in honesty, i have a bf since 1 year now, we see eachother all the time... It is true i go out with others too, but only as friends. We trust eachother a lot so there's no worries, no gelosy... Maybe that sounds borring to you, but being in meaningless relations seems borring to me... I can make any man fall inlove with me, but to make the one that i love fall inlove every day .. this is the complicated part, because you no longer can lie to him, he can se the truth in time, you have to stick to it and make it work. Adventure can be fun, but it's only make believe, and you're still alone at the end of the day, and you will never know what it feels to be loved and love at the same time if you don't even try!
• United States
3 Sep 07
If you are "Dating" two boys, that is okay. If you're "in a committed relationship" with both men it' not okay. You're cheating on them both and you're cheating yourself out of love. If you truly intend to just mess around with these men, and they are cool with that..that's your deal. If you're promising love to even one of them you're only going to hurt yourself.
@TDonald (1421)
• United States
11 Sep 07
Be honest with both, explain the situation, and let the men decide if they want to continue. There could be serious health repercussions depending on what you mean by fun.
@babykay (2131)
• Ireland
3 Sep 07
I think that you are probably going to end up getting hurt and it will be all your own fault. Also, these 2 guys, one or both of them could end up getting hurt. If you keep up the deception, they will find out and so will everyone else. You will get a bad name etc. Just end both relationships now and next time you get involved be committed.
• Kottayam, India
29 Aug 07
No one can serve two masters, either you love one hate the other, please be sure that one day it will blow up and the damage you cannot fathom, thereafter nobody will trust you.
• New Zealand
11 Sep 07
I will say ..i would like to meet you . I am not that lucky to get girl like you ..please meet nme some how and keep the secret ...cheers ..rating you for this .
• Egypt
30 Aug 07
i think u should have some fun but would ulike it if one of these persons having two womans too and not tellin u??? what would u feel about it?? and even if not did u think how u will look like when booth or at least one of them know ? not from u i mean belive me from u it will have a diffrant meaning but blow it up is by knowing not from u that's my view!!!!
@beckish (641)
• United States
29 Aug 07
I imagine it would be very difficult to maintain a relationship with two people at the same time. For me, monogamy is very important. If everyone involved simply wants to have fun and neither of them thinks they are the only one you are with there is probably no risk of hurting anyone. And fun is a good thing. :-)
@sultan1 (73)
• India
29 Aug 07
no dont tell it would be a very fun that u have a two men and u have more fun with them dont tell them and it would be go on and have a fun just having know
@tsitra100 (171)
• Barbados
28 Aug 07
There's no point in telling someone something they don't need to know. No one will benefit.
@rainrose (36)
• China
29 Aug 07
Why U ask this question?i think U must be tired,i have the same problem with U,haha,i feel very tired,i love one between them,But the other one love me very much.it's interesting.A person said that if U want to marry to Someone,U ought to find a man whom love U,Don't find whom U love because U'll very tired,U'll give him too much.Do U think so?True love isn't a fun game,love is very important,U should think twice and choose one between them.Of course,U needn't tell them,just choose!! When U grow up,U'll find these things are very interesting,But U'll be ......i don't know how to tell U this feel,U'll feel......
@tihsur (112)
29 Aug 07
Even if i tell you , you wnt be able to tell both of them. boz u are not to brave to tell truth nor any one else is to brave to tell truth. so go on, and enjoy your life
• United States
29 Aug 07
There is nothing wrong with it, and as long as everyone understands what your intent is. If you are making one of them believe that they are the only one and that you are in love with him, someone will get hurt. If they find out later, and they always find out, then you run the risk of losing both. You also want to understand, that they should be able to do the same as you are doing. Can you imagine either of them having someone else besides you? I am not saying you should tell, but you should think long and hard about this. I can tell you from experience, that it rarely ever works out well for anyone.
@cheska26 (34)
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
what 'he' (both of them) doesn't know wont hurt him.. right? if your just playin' then it ain't bad. so just keep it together and don't blow your cover.;p