Long Distance Love
August 29, 2007 4:04am CST
Can anyone tell me is it good to have long distance love affairs? Is this kind of love really can establish? Have anyone here with long distance love affairs and can you share something about this.. how strong is this love affair can be? I also would like to know.. if someone could share your established long distance love affairs.
29 Aug 07
well,my bf and i are apart from each other now.we can only get together on weekends,sometimes one or two times a month. it is enough,i think,love means trust,support,as well sacrifice.you can not ask your partner to abandon his job for you,and if you are not going to drop your own,ok,this conditions would move on. don't believe people always say :long distance will end your love one day. if you partner really love u,it couldn't.
29 Aug 07
Dear Liza.. i like your comments.. you are right. Its all how sincere you are towards your lover. Even your parted thousands of miles away but you are still close to him in you. Lucky you getting together on weekends or at least once a month, some hardly seeing each other for a year maybe but their faith and love kept them together. Its all the pure love and understanding of each others needs.. once you know it ..nothing can stop both of you.
29 Aug 07
For me it is still good to have long distance affairs.As long as you have trusted and a faith between two of you.Like me,i have my long distance love affairs,were even not seeing in person yet,we just expressing our selves by just talking and chating over internet.We just only see each other in cam.But i feel like his just near with me.If ever i have my problems hes always there for me,hes always making me comfort and giving me some good advices.No doubt were very far from each other but were close to heart.And until now were still in touch with each other...so for me long distance love affairs can be stablish.
29 Aug 07
Jackxav, i can say that your long distance love is really strong and my warmest wish to you both. The presence of the Net really helped many to establish their love life. So you are one of whom established your successful long distance love affairs. Your are right!, its all the faith and trust that you have and your sincerity towards your love which makes your love so solid.
5 Sep 07
i dont' believe long distance love can last for a long time. my ex-boyfriend works in a far city from me, and after a half of year , then i say goodbye to him. although we often send messages and chat online or by mobile, but i don't think it is necessary for lovers. if he really loves me,then i can go his city. but he doesn't have enough money to give me a better life, but ......
6 Sep 07
Thanks for your comments.. i'm sorry to hear your stories.. But i would like to say something here.. Love is not money.. u cant buy love.. Love is feelings and affection.. its more deep.. caring and understanding. If you need him truly.. you'll be his supporter and give him all the encouragement.. Now.. justify yourself first.. where do you stand and where is he stands in your love affairs.
5 Sep 07
I had a long distance relationship before for my ex bf, i can say that yes it works and lasted our relationship for almost 5 years, for 4 years he is in their province and when he come to the place where I live, that used to visit me everyday, pick me up in my work, at this point I feel so uncomfortable being with him all the time, its like i want him to be far away from me always, that's why our relationship ended up for 4months. Maybe I love him only when he is far away from me. So this means that long distance relationship between boyfriends and girlfriends is not that strong unlike those who are always in each other.
6 Sep 07
Thanks for you comments my friend, first of all i'm sorry to hear about your lovers departure. You have loved him for about 5 years and you feel you want him to be far aways from you.. I just dont understand.. as far as i know.. LOVE means sharing and understanding.. its the faith and trust you have in your relationship.. i guess maybe he might felt that your are avoiding him when he is with you.. so he might feel deep inside him that you have no interest in him.. maybe this Nice guy of yours went far away.. just to end the relationship from you in nice manner.. Pal, i just take note of this.. there are many lovers who live nearby and meets each other often.. fails too