Who's the boss?

Neither one of us is the boss. My husband and I have equal say in all decisions and we make decisions together. If the issue is something he has more expertise in, such as car repairs, I will go with what he recommends but most things we figure out jointly.

My husband and I talk over any important decisions and make a plan or a decision together. Sometimes he does influence me, because I can be more nervous and cautious and he can be more relaxed and calm. I have two children from my first marriage and they have realized that if they ask me and I am hesitant that it's a good idea to bring him into the discussion because he is more in favor of giving a little freedom to foster responsibility. However, when it comes to the kids, he allows me the final say. Sometimes we are in agreement, sometimes I go with my cautious side. But never does it lead to an argument or serious problems. I think a marriage is a partnership and both parties have an equal share in it. For it to succeed, both parties need to have their say and their opinions weighed in on all important matters.

most families in our country man is the boss in their family,man usually get the majoy income and most of decisions are made by them.