i like to be a man!

Philippines
August 30, 2007 8:13am CST
why does man can express his feelings when he like a girl? but when the girl is the first one to express her feeling to someone she like, the man will be turn off with her? the tendency is that, the girl will gonna wait until the man she likes, like her in return and will wait if she will be courted...and if not, the feeling of the girl will go nowhere...is that unfair?
5 responses
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Some girls get turned off when a man expresses his feelings to her, ever think of that one? I've seen it and known it. I think its terrible for this to happen to any gender. Unfortunately people are going to accept or not accept feelings, its life. I'll spare everyone the darker side of the male experience related to this subject. Just know that people should act on feelings like this instead of just sitting on them.
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@singlepixel (2743)
4 Nov 07
why must a girl wait for a man to say his affection to her? if a girl likes a man, it's totally no harm at all to make the 1st move...and it still can be romantic.. i think it's just 'gender tradition' that a man must make the 1st move...
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Thank you Singlepixel. Someone had to say it.
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• Philippines
5 Nov 07
in our country, when a girl makes the first move, it will cause her a trouble, its either that man will turned her down or accept her..mostly, a man will turned her down...
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6 Nov 07
i'm sorry to hear that. i'm sure girls in your country are tough when it comes to 'love' & 'romance'... maybe guys over there aren't sensitive enough when they meet girls face to face..just maybe..
• Egypt
31 Aug 07
hell yes that's unfair first i'm a man but i'd like so much when a girl have some crash on me to tell me and i would respect that right away not to make me feel highr or i wount play with her feelings too but i'll respect that becuse i know it takes alot of courage to do such a thing for me being a man that's a secret i get shy to tell how i feel i'm affraid to get smashed or played with again over and pver being loyal to some one is hard when that persons take u as thier toy :( so bad stuff happen to booth girls or men so go girls say what u feel maybe that man feel the same but scared to tell don't booth waste the time with the wrong person
• Philippines
1 Sep 07
good for you!but in our place, somehow we have this Maria Clara things that girl must be too careful with her treatment to boys...girl must be "pakipot" is their team for it which means that the guy must be the one to tell his feelings...thats why many guys in our place get dissappointed when the girls make the first confession of her feelings...thaks!
@xiuluoelly (1225)
• China
30 Aug 07
"Love" is not a man of power, no one has the power to love, love needs a lot of courage, especially the initiative to pursue a girl a boy, she is certainly pay a lot of courage. For this man so hated that only such a man worth our love. Not because of a love is not worth paying the men lost their pursuit of the power of love, I believe people will know you are good, as long as it does not give up, will one day find true love.
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
what will you do or how will you react if a girl come to you and said that she likes you?...just wondering...
@wisedragon (2330)
• Philippines
4 Nov 07
Well of course that's unfair. The reaction you'll get from the guy would be either of two extremes. If he didn't like you in the first place, then he would get turned off and it would ruin your friendship. But if he likes you to begin with, then he'll be happy to know that you like him. He would consider starting a relationship with you and in that case you made the right move. That's the chance that you'll have to take if you really like the guy. Don't worry about tradition. Instead worry about the things that you're going to regret later on for not trying.