Have you ever had a gReaTest CruSh of your life?

Philippines
August 30, 2007 9:11am CST
If you have a greatest love of your life would it be possible that you will have your greatest crush too? Or your greatest crush is also your greatest love? Tell me my friend who is your greatest crush and what do you think is the reason why he is your greatest crush or your greatest love also...
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@JUNGLE (1157)
• South Africa
31 Aug 07
I have had quite a few crushes,and they did not last very long.Recently I had not experienced any,and I thought well,thats it,no more crushes....it just wont happen again.I was wrong!!!!today I come over here and there it is!!!I dont know what to do... help!!!! I believe that this could be my gReaTest CruSh ever!! Can any person be so kind as to give me some help?
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
hello there jungle! :) Life offer us many great things and met different people. There maybe someone that has lost but there will always someone new to appear. Do not close your doors to the new love. Sometimes my friend you need to gamble a little to win big.Don't hesitate to show your affection if u think that it is already the one. You know love is really one of greatest experience you would cherish 'til your old. There's something i wanna ask you, hope u dont mind.Why are you hesitant? Have you ever gone into a more traumatic experience of love to shut your doors to new possibilities that might come along your way? Im telling you my friend love is really one of wonderful thing that might happen to your life!
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@JUNGLE (1157)
• South Africa
31 Aug 07
Well Sheen,I dont know, maybe its different for guys You know sometimes a guy might feel he does'nt look good or something.Okay lets do a little experiment. You be that girl,theres my photo have a look at it. So now I am saying to you "You are my gReaTest CruSh" Now what are you saying? See,a good experiment, yes? Please reply soon,because this girl has to know.This is very important.
• Philippines
1 Sep 07
You know i think your insecure...I would suggest you would need to have a little confidence for yourself bro. It's not always the physical thing that the girl likes to a man. Show to her your greatest assest. Your not really that bad looking guy, who knows the girl might have a crush on you too. You might regret later on that you haven't try at all. And thanks to you lowell for making this conversation a little more lively.It just made me think that its making sense coz it got you attention, :) thanks really bro!
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• United States
12 Sep 07
Well, since you have started this discussion. I have a good story to tell. I have a greatest crush and love back in high school.I was a senior and she was in junior high. We were so in love and thought that it's a perfect moment of our lives. You know the feeling of being in love and it feels like it's the end of the world. That's how we felt, I don't know yours but I guess all of us in one way or another felt this way before. I went to college and she was left in high school and we saw it's other every week until one day we had a problem. I think this has to do with identity vs. role confusion as part of adolescent stage. We had difficult times adjusting till one day we cooled off. Of course it was very hard for me and for her too until she finally ended our relationship 4 months after we cooled off. Oh boy! was i hurt so badly? I felt like I was crushed that my heart was aching and broken hearted. I tried to get back to her a couple of times during my entire college but she did not accept me. At first she gave me another chance but it didn't worked out . She told me that if we are really meant for each other, love will always find it's way back home. So we moved on with our lives and I learned that a lot of guys were courting her and it broke my heart. But I also learned that she did not accept any of those suitors. I tried to date other women but it's not working out. The feeling that I had for her was so different that I think I could move a mountain. We both finished college and she worked abroad and one day when she came home I was waiting for a bus ride and she was in the bus too and a suitor was sitting next to her with her family too. Oh Boy! I didn't realized that she was there and I felt like I wanna jump out of the bus or maybe just catch the next bus at the next stop. They're on their way to the city to accompany her to the airport the next day. I was just very calm and controlled my feelings of jealousy, I guess you know what I'm talking about. One day I had to go abroad too and I wrote her a letter. She was really touched by my letter. In my letter I wrote something like saying goodbye to her and wishing her good luck and thanking her for everything. I also learned that she did not accept that -- suitor.:) To make the long story short after 3 years abroad, one day I kept in touched with her. You wonder how I got her number? Her brother was my classmate and very close friend and buddy back in high school. One day we agreed to go home and see each other in our homeland with no expectations. To make the long story short we dated again as friends but we knew and I knew that I still loved her. This time we went to a very nice beach with her brother and friends. One night we went out to a disco along the beach and on our way home while walking on the sand along the beach we stopped and I proposed to her. She was stunned and couldn't answer me at first. Of course she played hard to get. I told her that if you will not accept me I'm going back abroad and will never bother you again. She hug me and I hug her tightly. I felt like I wouldn't want to end the night and just hug each other in my arms after 13 years being far away from each other. To make the long story short, after 2 years of being reunited we got engaged early this year and we are getting married very early next year. Now you will say that I'm an old fashioned guy but I did not touched her coz we want it to be special on the eve of our wedding. We kissed a lot by the way.:) You are all invited. I hope that this will inspire all of you and not to give up hope. As she said, love will always find it's way back home and it did. Maybe God wanted it this way to move on with our separate lives early on just to be reuntted at the end. I feel like I'm Romeo and she's my sweet Juliet. Of course life is not a fairy tale but I kinda realize that it's happening to us. Not everyday you can find this rare gem. This is our story and hope that it will inspire you all.
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• Philippines
15 Sep 07
hello Jesus, Wowwww.... what a great love story you got there! you got two thumbs up from me! another happy ending story. I am really facinated by a story of two persons who fall inloved , put into tests and still end up together. They survive together and moved on to another phase of their lives. Imagine all those years yet you have conquered it both. And been able to go back to each other arms again. Isn't it pretty amazing? Congratulations! :) And goodluck to both of you.
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• Philippines
4 Sep 07
I do have my greatest crush. A person with whom I had the biggest admiration and it was very recent. He was a great guy. Very intelligent and so kind. We do have a very good chemistry and I really like being around him. I wish he feels the same.
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• Philippines
7 Sep 07
Ohhh that's great! Congratulations... We always want to be always near to the person we like. And about if they're feeling the same way too? we can sense about it. And if you think he does give him some hint about your feelings towards him. A little motivation coming from you will help a lot in achieving your hopes... hehhehe goodluck to you hersmart4ever and to your lovelife!
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@bluishrose (2291)
• Philippines
1 Sep 07
Yes i do have a greatest crush and i greatets love. My greatest crush and also my frist love is my busmate when i was in elementary. I gave him small stuff like cards chocolates its like i was courting him but sad to say he didn't like me. My feelings for him went on till college and faded when i had my first boyfriend. But from time to time he still crosses my mind.
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• Philippines
1 Sep 07
While reading ur story i cant help but to smile. You actually did that before? Will I must congratulate you. I can't do stuff like that. that's more visible . Im more discreet in doing things like that i just give him a little hint about my feelings for him. hahahahha... It's just sad that he didn't like you but i think its his lose not yours,And good thing you have already get over him. Yeah memories of first crush doesn't fade permanently. But even it wasn't a success before still the thought of him somehow makes you smile and for sure gigles.. hehehehhee
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