I believe that gay marrige should be illegal. What do you think?

United States
August 30, 2007 10:13am CST
Since I was growing up, my parents taught me that gay marriage is wrong and immoral. I believe what they said but it seems as if the American society is glorifying this sin. I am just single minded or am I the right one here?
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
30 Aug 07
My father is gay and has been in the same relationship for many years now. In order to even come close to having the rights married people have, he and his partner have had to go to lawyers and have tons of papers drawn up, just to make sure they can make medical decisions for each other and such, all things that would come with marriage automatically. Even with all those kinds of paperwork, they still don't get the same tax breaks, have the same inheritance rights (sure if there's a will, they can inherit, but they will be taxed whereas a spouse wouldn't)... there are so many things they can't duplicate even with spending a lot of money and time on it. So I believe that NOT legalizing gay marriage is essentially keeping people like my father and his partner (who live a surprisingly normal and boring life) from having equal rights. I got so many rights just with my marriage certificate that they simply can't have... and for such a ridiculous reason as the fact that they have the same genitalia. What business is that of anyone's anyway?
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@uath13 (8192)
• United States
30 Aug 07
Great response. People don't seem to think about the fact that their being denied rights.
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
30 Aug 07
*applauds* Go Lecanis!! What a FABULOUS post! and hearing of the troubles some couples go through because of such outdated beliefs really gets me riled I have to admit :-/
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
31 Aug 07
Thanks, both of you. I think that's what bothers me about this whole issue most... is that the people who say "I am against gay marriage" always seem to be looking at it in some kind of abstract way, instead of looking at the lives of people that are being harmed by unfair laws. These are individuals we are talking about, human beings who are just trying to live their lives and be happy like everyone else.
@uath13 (8192)
• United States
30 Aug 07
Their not trying to glorify it. Their just trying to raise it from the dirt that people like your parents have stomped it into. Your being closeminded.
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
5 Nov 15
I don't believe it should be legal or illegal. I personally believe it is covered under the "right to the pursuit of happiness" of the constitution. This doesn't believe I think it is natural. Lots of things are not natural nor perfect.. in fact are quite flawed. God Himself endowed the ability to make choices.. an offshoot of thinking ability, actually.. All untruth will fall. We don't need to fight for it. Some of the nicest folks I know are gay.. God bless!
@pendragon (3350)
• United States
30 Aug 07
Since gay marriage has been an "issue" worth seriously debating for about 5-6 years now, for your parents to have lauded against it your whole life, you must be exceedingly young.I vote that you are very single minded.
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
31 Aug 07
If you are not gay, why should the issue matter to you at all? Even if you believe it is a sin, (which I disagree but hey everyone is entitled to their opinion)when it comes right down to it, what does it matter to you? I think adults should be able to choose their partner/partners and have their relationships recognized & protected by the same rules that are applied to any other couple. What difference does it make to me or you if it's two men, a man & two women, a man & one woman or any combo there of? No one is suggesting that hetero marriages be made illegal and only gay marriages be allowed; just that all people should have the same rights & responsibilities.
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• United States
5 Nov 15
people don't realize to those opposed to gay marriage, it's a societal issue, not personal. They are conservative (wanting to conserve) the framework of society they believe works best for society, children and family. I myself figure God gave 'free-will' so who are we to take it away? :)
@PrarieStyle (2486)
• United States
10 Nov 15
I believe it should be illegal. What if I want to marry my dog, or maybe my 5 year old nephew? Where do we draw the line? Do we draw the line? Who gets to draw the line?
@Galena (9110)
4 Sep 07
I think it's a good thing. Love is something to be celebrated, and denying any group the right to celebrate and mark that love, and find legal security in their relationship, is just cruel and wrong. Gay marriage has no effect on you, or anyone else not part of that relationship. but it provides security. you know someones partner, the love of their life, their one, could go into hospital, and someone could have no rights to even see them on their deathbed. how can that ever be right? it also protects financial rights, property rights. fair enough, if a religion doesn't agree with homosexuality, then they shouldn't marry homosexuals, but a civil marriage ceremony is out of their hands to dictate to. Gay marriage harms no one. in fact, it affects no one but the couple. so people need to get their nose out of other peoples PRIVATE LIVES.