Mylot members who want you to be a friend of a relative or someone on myLot

I had a feeling that this post was about me. Listen, just delete me. I don't want a person to be my "friend" out of pity. Just know that there are a lot of people like me out there, and I'm sure I'm not the first person you've encountered. If I am, oh my! I am a little offended by this, as you make all kinds of assumptions about me based on some information you garnered online. God-fearing? You know what? I'm more open minded about Christianity than you seem to be about people who aren't of the same religion, etc as you. I didn't ASK my mother to get people to add me. She did that on her own accord. She loves me, even though she was against some of the things that I am into, like queer people, and pagans, just to name a few. Another mylot member told me not to start an argument, or say anything negative, but this, this was just TACTLESS and I couldn't help but to respond in my own defense. You should confront a person directly. You don't know whether or not I'm a good person, whether or not I pray, whether or not I believe in God or Jesus. I'm behind a computer screen. So are you. Save us both the trouble and delete me. I should start discriminating more in the future, because I don't want to get worked up over some random person that I'll never know. I hope you pray for yourself, because I'm going to pray for you!

You can delete friends here, but I'm very sad to hear that you are rejecting this person just because she has different beliefs than you. If the original sad story that convinced you to befriend the person in the first place is true, then you would think your compassion towards her because of her problems would overcome your intolerance of her religious beliefs. I sure wish this person would add me as a friend, because I'd love to be her friend, from what you say about her. =)

Suspenseful, I never stated anything about my daughter's disability nor did I say that she hardly had time to request friends for herself. I did state that she is fairly new to MyLot and asked my friends to check out her articles and add her as a friend. The choice to add a friend is one that should be a decision that one makes on their own. I have added people at the request of my friends too. I do not respond to every article that everyone writes as I don't agree with some of their articles. That does not mean that they are unworthy of my friendship. My daughter is a good hearted person and she is one of the most open-minded, intelligent people that I know. I am proud to have her as not only my daughter, but as my friend. Please delete her from your list if that is what you so choose to do. It is your right.

If she has trouble making frineds on here. Then what would make you think she would be able to communicate with friends someone else makes for her? One reason she might have trouble making friends is because of what she posts, and the things that she is into. That may or may not be a reason though, just a thought.

Well to be honest I don't mind those posts, rather hear something positive about a person than complaints and bashing. I don't mind that they point someone out, this is a large board and it can take months to come across someone I would be interested in as a friend, so it's cool to me. I will run them through the checklist as I do all and if they fit what I am looking for I will add them, if not then I won't. So it's not a big deal to me. BTW Do you really not know how to delete people from your friends list? Just go look at your list via the link at the top of the page, it’s a link clearly marked as “delete” next to their name.

hi suspenseful, to delete a friend the previous responders have showed you how. about the mother trying to get her daughter a friend, I think this is a common thing mothers do for their children. my mom disagreed most of the time with my own choice of friends and would prefer me to be friends with certain people she thought are better. I have done that before, helping others to make friends, but this was in real life. Soon after they made friends, somehow they ganged up against me. So I learned that unless I really trust the person, I won't help this person make friends or accept this person's friends as mine. Anyway it is your right who you want to be friends with. Have a good weekend.

Suspenseful, it's too bad you are not open and accepting like Jesus was. You know he hung around the beggars, the unbelieving, and the "social outcasts" of his time. He was a kind, generous, big-hearted man who would not turn his bad on someone who didn't share his views. Maybe you need one of those W.W.J.D. bracelets. Oh, and Goddess Bless. :D