Forgiveness - unfaithful
By lillygelo5
@lillygelo5 (7)
United States
4 responses
@lillygelo5 (7)
• United States
31 Aug 07
When I was first going out with my husband he cheated on me with is ex-girlfriend. He told me she kissed him and he let himself. He said he had to tell me because he cared for me deeply. I don't know if I made it a big deal by breaking up with him but at that moment I felt betrayed. I went back to him after a few months,it took me that long because the ex-girlfriend did all she can to get between us. I was deeply hurt in most of the decisions my now husband made with his ex when she was after him. I do trust him now but I guess somewhere deep in my heart there is a small wound that needs to heal. He was weak when he was dealing with his ex, a girl who cheated on him, and hurt me in the process. It distroyed my image of him. Every day now, he shows his love for me, but I feel cheated not having a perfect love story, I am being absurd. I guess when our kids ask us of our love story I leave that part out. If you love someone with all your heart and beleive in him, there is a change of happiness. Even all this I love him and I don't regret loving him and forgiving him.
@kennedee (156)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
Nobody can answer exactly how long can a person forgive beacuse it's only time who can heal all wounds. It's a step by step process but it can help if a person really want forgiveness in his/her heart. Remember that it wont just happen we should also want this to happen for it to be possible.
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
31 Aug 07
I think being cheated on is something you never really get over, you may try and forgive and you may conquer that but I think once trust has been lost it never comes back 100%. In fact in mys case being cheated on destroyed my trust in everyone as it was too of the clesest friends I had and even today I feel if they could do that anyone could....
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
31 Aug 07
Look trust is the most important key in any relationship. Once that is broken as a comment said it never gets back to where it was. Trust has to be earned and no matter what you still have to find it in your heart to forgive especially if you think that person is the one you wnat t spend your life with. If they are truly sorry give them another chance. GOd had given so many chances so why not?
