how many feel marriage is not the right thing to be in

I think marriage is not just a form, but also a responsibility, but now the divorce rate is so high, probably will be for many years after the abolition of this form. Lol ......

I personally feel its on the decline and its rather discouraging to be in. I've seen some very sick things and it doesn't give the institution good press in my opinion. I know they are several cases compared to thousands of married couples, but still it has an effect. Of course I am not opposed to helping others with their marriages or their relationships. :)

I think its different for everyone..somem ppl are more happy if they are married and will in fact stay together for their entire lives...then again other ppl are quite content to just live together "just in case" they arent confidant that they'll be together always...then you also have ppl like me that realize that whatever happens, married or not, will happen and thats that...

Nowadays marriage isn't THAT important as it was some years ago. There are still some countries in the world where it is but it seems like it's really a thing of *going down* (I don't say "die out"!!!) I don't want to marry since I (and that's MY PERSONAL way of view!) think that the whole marriage thing is just a waste of money. I'm not religious and I also can have a party with friends and family if I want to do so.

I felt the same thing, there are so many people who have regreted that they got into marriage and after 3 to 5 years after marriage they realize that they weren't happy anymore and have to end up thier relationship,it such a waste...