When they go away

I do until bedtime then I get lonely for him and start missing him something bad. But we have been together for 11 years and only been away from each other for 4 times for the whole night, twice when I had our kids, once the night before we got married and one time last summer when he went to Texas.

When my husband, was working, away from home, I was soooo happy. It was literally the most peaceful time of my life. It was wonderful, coming home from work, to a peaceful house. I didn't have to argue, or listen to his nonstop complaints. My answer is a great big yes, yes, yes. I love it! I wish he'd go away forever. lol

well the longest my hubby has ever been away was for a day! and of course i missed him extremely but u're right, not cooking is def. a plus!

With my Ex Husband it got to the stage that I was looking forward to him going away it was the only time I got sanity With my Boyfriend now no I don't like it when he is not close by like this weekend considering we used to live 3 hours apart lol I don't know how I coped as I can't cope now when he is not 30 minutes down the road lol

Well I hardly run across this. The only times I do is when my wife stays at our daughters house. But now I try to get away a lot for a couple reasons. One reason is to get free of the stress of taking care of my father 24/7. Let me tell you this is VERY stressful. Then I also like to get away just to be away from all the family and friends and go up north to the farm for some peace and quiet for a weekend. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Mmm--I think we're going to have to watch you and those wild parties you're going to have, staying up until dawn, playing music loud, dancing on top of the table with a lampshade on your head--hey, that sounds like fun, can I come over? LOL Well I'm not married nor have a boyfriend...sniff..sniff..YET--the only thing I can relate to here was years and years ago when both my mom and grandmother were alive and they went away on vacation and I was home alone--I loved it!! Uh, no, didn't have wild parties...but it was nice to "bend" the house rules--I mean everyone usually does follow some kind of "rules"...go to bed when I wanted to, get up when I wanted to, eat when I wanted..ah, nice freedom..Now I have that all the time..though I'm still a stickler for "some" discipline, but I enjoy that freedom--

My husband doesn't go away very often, and if he does, it's only for a few days. He did go away once for a week, and all my friends felt so sorry for me, I was invited out by a different friend every day. I have no idea why, they just thought I should stay busy.

I don't like it when my husband has to take business trip, because I worry about him eating right etc.. I don't miss him though. As and Army brat and then an Army wife, I am used to long seperations from my family members. I do hope he has to go less as we get older tho, getting old is scary. What if I break a hip while he's gone?! Oh my...

it does not only happen to you ladies also to us men. We all need some space from time to time but it does not mean we love each other less.It is part of our relationship with people.Haven't you notice that with our bestfriends if we are always together ? we still need that private space to keep us in-tack or in touch with ourselves.It would even make our relationship better, stronger and healthier.

Sometimes I do- but then I get so lonely after a while - and of course both dogs follow me everywhere - (cause daddy ins't there). My husband went away for a week without me once and I hated it- I can deal with a coupld of days but a week is to much.

All the time. I do miss him mostly at nights but not so much during the day because I have my son and he keeps me busy and I feel that I am not all alone. The nights are the hardest for me!

I can relate completely. Especially to the bowl of ice cream for dinner if I want. I usually miss him in the morning after he has been gone only one day. That is because I have become extremely spoiled to having coffee brewed and ready for me to stumble into the kitchen and pour a cup. And then twenty minutes later I miss him again because I've grown spoiled to him straightening the bed while I am waking up over my coffee. I guess I am a bit spoiled. ;-P

i feel bad when i know he will be gone for couple of days..sometimes for couple of weeks or could be month because of his work..i feel so empty when i know he is not gonna be around not the same feeling when i know he's out for work till late but will be going home beside me on the bed..i feel the emptiness inside the house..feels so sad and miss him terribly..

so do i . my bf and i would feel boring when we stay together every day,but once apart from for a few days,we would miss each other. now,we've been not gotten together for three weeks,i am missing him very much......

No I can honestly say that when mine is gone I really enjoy it. The whole bed to myself, the tv all to myself, everything all to myself...LMAO. I am really not happy in my relationship right now, but even when I am happy I am glad to see him go. Not for long periods of time but for a few days is good.

I know what you mean exactly. I do not have the "few days' experience but as from morning to evening everyday these few months i do the same you told, like what i want to eat and when i want to, not at a fixed time or fixed menu for dinner or lunch. I like to eat in this way, Well, I do not have a couple of days but i feel boring sometime during the day and upset too much sometime but as I have this online friends, i can manage it anyway.

I dont like even in the beginning. I hate seeing my husband walking out in our door knowing that he will not be with us for how many months. Since my husband is working abroad and staying there for 3months it is so sad and honestly I always cry coz im longing to him so much, before his contract was 8-9 months and its so sad being alone in my house specially when i've got pregnant and have son, though he is with me when i gave birth to our son but it is so sad looking forward that I have to raise my son with me alone sometimes when he is onboard. Luckily that he found a new company and get a shorter term being onboard now his contract is only 3 months abroad and 1 1/2 stay here, its good for us now that our son is growing up and needs his attention most, but of course with the help of new technologies like cellphone and of internet, this will help relieve the pain for a while and make lessen the saddess that me and my son feel when he is away.

It does not happen with me...when my wife goes away from me, I miss her a lot..I have complete freedom even if dhe is within me..So I ddont have any options that I want to do during her absense..But without her, I feel bitter and world becomes hell for those no. of days

yeah it happen to me too, but not taht with food.I eat what i want if he is here or not:) yeah, sometimes is helpful when he go somewhere for few days, or even better when I go somewhere for few days.but really only few, becuase later on I start to miss him.