single and marriage life which is comfortable?

@fredgame (1260)
China
September 1, 2007 3:06am CST
many marry to have kids and having to be two as the saying goes "two heads are better than one" while the sinlge may have not yet prepared to get into marriage and the attached reasons. though not yet married,i think single life is difficult apart from one's parents you have no one to share your private life, and others. when i see a couple kiss, hug and walk together the thought of marriage comes to mind and i want it so much. i'm not yet married so i cant talk of marriage life. i'd like to know your opinion, please share your thought.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 Sep 07
I think it depends on what sort of person you are, most people like marriage as this is a partnership, but some people especially these days some do not want to live in a partnership they want to make their own decisions without having to work with someone else but as you say it is nice having someone to share your private lives with well having a good friend you can share your private thougths with and this can be good too.. just remember sometimes the grass does look greener on the other side...
• China
1 Sep 07
this is also the question that makes me feel confused. i have independent thoughts and opinions and i like making my own decision instead of controled by others. but on the other hand, i need someone here to protect me. he would go with me wherever i go, because i've heard too many news that single female be attacted. and also, i need companion and communication. i think it would be much better in marriage if you find the right one. two person can make great difference while you may life the same life day after day.
@langhua (501)
• China
1 Sep 07
I think marriage is more comfortable than single.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
2 Sep 07
I'm a single mom now and if I will compared it to my old life that I've been with my husband I would prefered to be single. Now I don't have so much stress and I don't have a fight to him, not even before I have to defend and argue with him all the time. Now I just concentrate on how I can give my children a better life and a better education my full concentration now is for being a mom and not for being a bothered wife coz my husband is still not going home.
@Mantae (1)
• Philippines
2 Sep 07
I prefer single life.
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• China
2 Sep 07
i prefer marriage to single. though the single has more advantage, but married can share his cheer or gloom with the partner like u said. But i do not like having a child as soon.:)
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• Canada
3 Sep 07
It's very hard to say which lifestyle is more comfortable. some people do OK single, and some people do better married. Some are married and want to become single again, some, like myself, are currently "single," though in a relationship, about to get married. Who knows?
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
1 Sep 07
family - you never regret having a loving family by your side
Definitely being single is more comfortable because there are less headaches, less things to worry about, and less financial problems. However, at the end of a person's life I don't think anyone says "I never should have married and had kids." The more likely regret is "I should have married and had kids."
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• Pakistan
10 Sep 07
Singles are free to go every where to look anyone to love many. But married are bound to each other. They are tighten with a rope of marriage.
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
I think it's better to be single than in a marriage that just brings you pain. But it depends on what kind of marriage life you have if it is harmonious then why choose to be single, it's so wonderful to share love. Single or married you should stay happy and fulfilled that is what important.
• China
7 Sep 07
Allow me to say my opinions,In my view,single is more comfortable.b/c i think that sinle gives us morev free time and you will have more time to enjoy your life,However,If you got married there are so many things you have to consider,you have to make for living you have to rais your children you have to support your family,However,I can't say that single is always good,When in marriage we know what our responsibility is,we have our motive to work hard,that is all of of family, you need to make your family live a happy life,you need to work hard,These call can be your spirite support no matter in work or difficulities you confronted. In regular,both of them has its advantages and dis advantage. In my view I love single life.;-)
• China
1 Sep 07
I agree marriage is more comfortable than single,and single is more free than marriage.I like my job and my friends.sometimes I feel lonely ,in that time I want to have a child or have a partner. but that's a while. now I am single, and want to be an active single..I often say to myself:thouth I am single.I am happy.have a nice day..
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@vijay1wdv (357)
• India
1 Sep 07
being single is always best. It gives you freedom and independence. Your decisions dont affect anyone much when you are single.
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• China
1 Sep 07
marriage is terrible...imaging there is someone trying to controll ur all everyday,i'll be mad...
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