Let's talk about international and interracial marriage!
@tianshangdemen (69)
Singapore
September 2, 2007 12:12pm CST
Let's talk about international and interracial marriage
I think it's a wonderful thing. You can learn different culture and other things. What' more, you will get a beautiful baby. It's said that people would get beautiful and clever baby.
However,someone may think its very good. Beacuse there
are too many defferent living habits bewteen each other. It needs much longer time to adapt than the internal marriage. If your reins is not so good, you may be can not insist to last.
anybody wants to share your experience or opinion with me?
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5 responses
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
3 Sep 07
imagine it , beautiful. learning different culture,having a beautiful baby.but in real life, there are lots of things that you have to overcome.foe example:
1, you have to speak language in each country of you.then you can get along well with each other
2, you must know more culture about each country of you. it is a hard work to know other country's culture. if you are interested in it, then you will be easy.
3, you have to get your parents' admission. most of parents dont' admit international or interracial marriage.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
3 Sep 07
I don't agree with the beautiful baby part. I've seem plenty of mixed kids and some of them are not that cute. I have always been involved with interracial relationships. To me people are people. You might have a different culture but when it comes down to it all humans are pretty much the same. Love should see no color. I feel sorry for people who get angry when they see an interracial couple because there's no reason for it. Be happy for anyone who is happy and finds love.
@Malyck (3425)
• Australia
3 Sep 07
I am fully supportive of interracial/intercultural relationships and marriages, but I still firmly believe that people fall in love with the personality and not with someone's background.
If you love or marry someone just because you could have good looking children, then you've missed the point/don't understand love. For those who want children, it's a great perk, but not a base for a relationship.
I don't necessarily think it takes any longer to adapt to an interracial relationship. Obviously the two people are dating because they like one another - every couple must work to keep things alive, happy and functional, and we all learn along the way.
I don't think that relationships fail because of a culture-clash, I think they fail because the two people just weren't 'right' for each other.
Intimate Relationships and Friendships with people from other cultures, races etc are wonderful and do teach you a lot first hand =D
@angle007 (166)
• India
2 Sep 07
It's said that people would get beautiful and clever baby
I totally agree
