Did you ever decide that you gave your child the wrong name?
By AnjaP
@Rollo1 (16679)
Boston, Massachusetts
September 3, 2007 8:13pm CST
I named my daughter after my great-grandmother because I always loved her name. As my daughter grew and I saw what a flair she had for drama (she started practicing making expressive faces and crying in the mirror at 18 months) I thought I should have given her a name like Sarah Bernhardt or Margaret O'Brien (famous child actress known for crying scenes).
My son often tells me to call him by a different name, and once or twice I have quite liked what he came up with. He does it as a whim and for fun, but sometimes I think he finds names that suit him better than the one I gave him.
My question is, did you ever think after a few years that you picked the wrong name for your child? I know we are always used to the names and think they fit them, but after getting to know them as individuals, did you ever doubt your first choice of names?
2 responses
@nmw2005 (1197)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I am due in a few months and my husband and I just decided on her name. I figure that no matter what we name her, there will be a point in her life where she won't like it and will want to be called something else. I love the name and the reason we picked it and I am hoping that she will too.
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
4 Sep 07
i haven't really thought that. although my oldest is only 5. though i have sometimes because she has met quite a few girls with the same name. when i named her i didnt know any other people with girls with the same name. then after i had her i found out that 5 babies were born with the same name at that hospital in the last 2 months lol. so chances are she be in class with another girl with the same name.
@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
4 Sep 07
Actually, it's not necessarily bad to have a popular name, although it's a fine line. You wonder if she will like a name that is common or come to hate one that is too unique and no one else has ever heard of it. I just sometimes think that kids express such personality that one name may not be enough, lol.