It's Going Well Now...Thank God!!! :-)
By add_im
@add_im (2712)
Philippines
September 4, 2007 10:03am CST
Hi guys, I'm just so excited and feeling happy to share my happiness to you all about my relationship with my hubby. As some of you know that we've been through hardtimes and confusion in our marriage...but now it's over with already. Right now, we're just happily continuing our happy marriage although the fact is we're still far apart from one another it's because of his work there in US, but both of us are looking for the day soon to come that we will be together again...I mean, 'being together for good' as one husband and wife not like what our situation like as now used to be. It's going to be different this time and we will be together for the rest of our lives, never be apart from one another anymore.
I just need your prayers still and good wishes for our marriage hoping that everything will just go well with us, specially in our relationship as husband and wife.:-)
Thank you guys so very much, from my heart to you all!
Imelda:-)
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19 responses
@Nykkee (2522)
• Canada
4 Sep 07
Why don't you go with your husband while he is working abroad? Do you have a bunch of children or some reason that you can't travel? It would make much more sense financially as well if you could be with him instead of your guys funding two households.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
We would love that really, but there are just some circumstances in our part personally that others can't see them. I mean, from the moment that we parted problems just occur in an instance and those things there created such a big impact concerning our marriage but now since we truly prayed to save our marriage together then we have come to the conclusion to why not saved it? So now, gladly to say that this is it now...we're on our way to settle everything straight and continue to live our happy marriage as what it supposed to be. :-)
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
5 Sep 07
Lol :-), well to be honest none of us do such a thing of cheating but just only having such a deep misunderstanding due to our lack of communication, reason why we almost broke our marriage at those span of times that we haven't got to talked for such a long time.
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@Yestheypayme2dothis (7874)
• United States
4 Sep 07
You have my prayers. I know what it is like to be away from your husband for many months. Are you coming to the USA? What part of the USA will you be in? I live in Pa.
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@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
5 Sep 07
I can't imagine how hard this must be for you to be so apart from your husband but hope and pray that everything will work out great for you both so that you can be togehter the way you want to be and the way it is for everyone else . Best of luck and take care .
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
5 Sep 07
Yes, it's very hard to imagine to be far away from your loved one...specially now that we really are away from one another, but I know someday we will be together again in each other's arms and that would be real soon. :-) Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
Hi add_im! I am so glad to hear your good news about your marriage. I believe that both of you can get through anything together as long as you both believe in yourselves and in your love. Always have that beautiful and open communication between you and him so the doubts and loneliness will somehow fade away. I will always be wishing you good things for your marriage and may the Good Lord bless you more. Take care and have a nice day.
@mbilagan (178)
• Philippines
5 Sep 07
Oh that's really a good news! Congratulations! I know how hard it is to have a distance relationship like in my case. My honey is far from me too and sometimes we get a little misunderstanding especially if we are not able to talk because of our schedules. But one thing I learned in this relationship is to really be patient and understanding. Another key is to never stop reaching out for him. Guys sometimes are too lazy to talk nor chat but it doesnt mean that they love you less. They are just different from women. Goodluck sis and I hope you and your hubby will be together soon!
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
4 Sep 07
that's fantastic... i will keep on praying for you and i believe that God will keeps on blessing your marriage and do good things to it as long as you and your hubby also put effort to work on it... good luck and i am very happy for you... take care and God bless you...
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@TheCatzMeow1 (579)
• United States
5 Sep 07
It sounds like you're taking a step in the right direction. Just remember to take one day at a time. I hope he can return home to you very soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband.
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@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
5 Sep 07
Well since I don’t know why you both were apart in the first place, so I comment on how you came back together, but whatever it is, keep it up. Its very easy to break anything and once broken, the pieces never mend flawlessly, no matter how hard you try. So keep on trying never to break, you have only one soul mate and if you have found one, go all out to stay attached. I wish you both good luck and am happy for both of you.
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
5 Sep 07
Thats so good to hear. My prayers do go with you and your husband. And I wish you only the best for you two. Just remember always be positive and your marriage will work out. Stay happy.
@mycharm88 (2288)
• Philippines
5 Sep 07
Hi add_im!!!
Wow!congratulations my friend, glad to hear that your marraige is going well right now.It's true that marraige really has tought times but if you love each other that much, nothing will separate you from the person you truely love... You'll be in my prayers and Good luck!
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
Nice to hear that your relationship have gone to a higher plane of understanding each other.Most couples would simply run to the comfort of separating due to irreconciliable differences, but you got the hopes of working it out, that is what being married is all about.knowing how to compromise and working things out because you love one another and not because of the kids.
@sophylline (1041)
• Philippines
6 Sep 07
That is great news, Imelda. I'm very happy for you. I hope everything will go on smoothly now with regards to your marriage. It would really help to communicate with your spouse regularly. Being physically so far apart is really hard. Heck, even a husband and a wife living together is hard enough, much more so I guess with your situation. I guess you have to keep being positive with your outlook, work things out with all these things that make you apart. Once again, I am glad everything is going well now. I wish you happiness in your relationship. We are here to support you. Take care of yourself.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
30 Sep 07
Anyway it is a good thing that you will be together for the rest of your life without being apart from each other any more. I am very happy for you. I hope that you will be happy for ever and have an excellent relationship as always. Live to the fullest, friend.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
23 Sep 07
I'm glad you two were able to work it out Imel. Here's to more happiness and many years together with your husband. Definitely wishing you the best from the heart and soul.
@devilliers7 (63)
• South Africa
5 Sep 07
Good for you! All the best of luck to keep it there. But you can. At www.freewebs.com/hendriklive there is a good article "12 Tips on a Happy Marriage"
