Cheating...would you tell?

@crazymom (579)
United States
October 26, 2006 10:43pm CST
If you caught one of yur friends cheating on their spouse, would you tell the spouse??
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8 responses
• United States
27 Oct 06
Always remember the two most important things in life: 1. Always keep your mouth shut 2. Never ever rat out on your friends. ~Goodfellas
@crazymom (579)
• United States
31 Oct 06
That is true!!
@jelee_20 (109)
• United States
27 Oct 06
hi. i actually caught an acquaintance's husband intimately hugging another woman (he did see me too, but looked the other way). i wasn't really close to them. & i was too scared to tell on him. was that the right thing to do?
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@crazymom (579)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I am not for sure!! I think that I would have, but different people handle it differently
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
27 Oct 06
It actually happened to me. I talked to my friend about it first and it turns out things were misintrepreted (sp). Its a long story, but she wasn't actually cheating. It's always better to talk to the friend before you go to the spouse.
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@saphire539 (1639)
• United States
27 Oct 06
First i would have a talk with my friend about what i knew,then if they didn't let there spouse know then yes i would tell them about it.Because if it was me i would want to know what was going on.
@crazymom (579)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I would want to know!!
• United States
27 Oct 06
No I don't think you have the right to make that choice. But hinting is a must. I think you should put the idea in there head without telling them. That way no matter what happens your not to blame.
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@SachseMom (448)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Like some people on here have already posted I would have to talk to my friend first and see what is going on but then if she or he is cheating I would have to tell! I would want someone to tell me! I had the same thing happen to me before I was good friends with both of them and found out he was cheating I took her out and told her and she was taking me out to tell me that my boyfriend was cheating!! So, yes I would want to know!
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@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 06
If that happended to be my best or real good friends I will tell him/her what I know provided I really have evidents or have sight it myself.
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@flte74 (876)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Of course I would, I would want the same done for me.
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