we don't have enough money and how should we meet the life after we get married

China
September 4, 2007 8:19pm CST
My boyfriend and i prepareing to get marry in this year,and we don't have money. Now I am lost the job, I am in the dark days in my life. May be we only left the love between us, who knows? love may be dismiss though the time. I don't know how about the next step. I feel miserable now.
3 responses
• United States
6 Sep 07
If it is meant to be you guys will make it through.My husband and I have been through so many ups and downs but the way I look at it is that it makes us stronger. If you are short on cash I would put off getting married until you can afford the wedding of your dreams. My husband and I waited about five years after we got engaged because I knew what I wanted out of a wedding and I didnot want to cheat myself out of any of it.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
5 Sep 07
Life has its difficult times, but it is better to go through life with someone rather than alone. At least if you get married, you can have one place to rent, instead of two(?) You don't need to spend lots of money on a wedding. No, it's the marriage that's important. a wedding can be beautiful without spending lots of money. My dress was handmade, my flowers given to us by friends, the meal was brought by everyone.. Live a simple life.. It's not what we have that matters.. and as far as life's expenses, I think two heads are better than one.. peace and prayers..
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
5 Sep 07
That's good then even if you lost your job you can still find another one...If you plan to get married then may you save some money first so that you'll not be on debts. It's hard to have more credits and don't have a stable job.