Do your friends always defend you?

United States
September 4, 2007 10:53pm CST
Whenever I am having a really bad day, one of my best friends, always sees the best in things. He's always making up excuses for me and trying to make me feel better. If something goes wrong, he refuses to place blame on me and says that those kinds of things happen to everyone. And, I think that's an amazing quality to have in a friend. I just hope that I can do the same for him, if he ever does get around to having a bad day! And, if someone talks bad about me, he is always taking up for me and saying what a good person I am. It's nice to have friends that do that! Do your friends take up for you? Do they defend you when others speak ill of you? Do they make you feel better about a bad situation and tell you that things are not your fault? Do they help you through times that you feel alone?
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• Hong Kong
5 Sep 07
Yes they do. And I am happy to have them as friends. Whenever I am unhappy or upset in some situations, they would accompany me and suggest stuff to do. They wouldn't comfort me (because they know that I don't really need those) but they would say things to make me feel better. The most lucky thing is, I think they know me enough to make me feel a lot better in certain situations.
• India
5 Sep 07
Yes most of my friends help me out in such odd situations. I think this is mainly because our relationship is such that we don't expect anything from them and we don't impose any conditions or rules in our relationship. It is just pure love that keeps us together and keeps us as a way out of odd situations. Thank you all my dear friends for being there for me! I love you all sooooooo much!
@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Not all of my friends- but my true- close friends do- They are always there- picking me up when I fall down- Defending me if needed- And I do the same- I am quite adamant about my friends- I don’t like people talking about them- I stand up for them- That is what friends are for- It’s great to have friends like this- and to be a friend like this!
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
5 Sep 07
true friends will defend you if you are in the right corner. but if you are not true friends will tell you and let you realize that you are wrong