who loves more, you or your partner?

@wendy805 (261)
China
September 6, 2007 6:18am CST
in your relationship, who loves more? you or your partner? i think it is not always the same with regard to love between partners. your ralatoinship goes forword with the unequal amount of love. it is not just we both love each other. i admit this kind of relationship exists, but in more cases,one loves more than the other,or one is loved more than the other. in my case, i would say, before, i love him more, now, he loves me more. i don't know why this change happens or the things which make this happen. how about you? have you felt about differnece of your love? have you noticed the change of your love between you two? do you know something that could bring about changes?
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@wasons (302)
• China
6 Sep 07
yes,you are right,for my case my partner loves much more than i,actually i do not understand what is the love,when i went to college i had ever loved another girl who did not love me,and it influnces me until now,maybe it is the reason why i love my partner less.i don't know what would change it.
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@wendy805 (261)
• China
7 Sep 07
oh, it is really miserable to love one who doesn't love you. now you've got a person who loves you. glad for you.treasure her...
@bluishrose (2290)
• Philippines
6 Sep 07
As for us unconsciously we are on a competition on which who loves more. As for my perspective he loves me more and im challenge to love him more hehe. Theres never an idle time or moment with him he always show how much he loves me by simple hugs, kisses and even smile showing me how glad he is to have me. I always make it a point to overcome it and love him more. As i make my move he even loves me more because of this lolz!
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@soleya (1102)
• Latvia
6 Sep 07
I think that it is so true that in the relationships one is always more in love than another. In my relationships my husband loves me more than I am, but this difference is not so big. In the beggining of our relationships it was huge gap between my feelings and his, and now i love him more and more very day.
@wendy805 (261)
• China
10 Sep 07
you and i are just opposite. hehe . happy everyday!!
• China
6 Sep 07
I think I love myself more, becouse eveyone love itself.
• Romania
6 Sep 07
I love myself too!
• India
7 Sep 07
HELLO GUYS!!! actually.. keepin my views in front of u all abt dis discussion itz quite tough.. but lemme place my views.. itz ME WHU LOVES MY PARTNER D MOST COZ M BEHIND HER $M PAST $ YRS BUT SHE'S NT ACPTN MY PRO... IF U ALL HAV A LITTLE TIME.. THN PLZ PRAY 4 ME n 4 MY LOVE SO I CAN GET MY LOVE.. THNKN U.. REGDS
@brijlesh (273)
• India
6 Sep 07
This is so critical question, I think we both love equally with each other...
@shomomo (850)
• Israel
6 Sep 07
At first I really felt that I love my partner more than she loved me, however I've come to realize that she loves me just as much as I love her and maybe even more. It's a great feeling to know that someone is that inlove with you, especially when you realize the actions they take upon those feelings
• United States
6 Sep 07
In my relationship, oops ex-relationship I loved my girlfriend more than she loved me (actually I don't know if she loved me) And then the problems started - no trust, doubts, bad thoughts in my head and everything goes down in this moment I mean when this starts. So I'll give you an advice - just enjoy your moments and don't think about that! P.S: Have a nice day, wendy!