She's out and I'm misirable now.
By devilsangel
@devilsangel (1817)
United States
September 6, 2007 3:58pm CST
Ok for those of you who followed my discussion on my sister, she finally came out to me a few weeks ago. Thats great for her, crappy for me now. Don't get me wrong I'm happy as hell that she's finally able to come to terms with herself and be honest, I just hate the fact that now I have to bare witness to the train wreack that is her love life. See gay or staright my sister has the crappest taste in mates, and her current is like the crazy stalker bytch from hell. I like many other people have a myspace page, and of course I'm on my sisters page in her top 8. I leave her little random comments throughout the week letting her know I love her and to call me and what have you. Well her crazy g/f decied to message me telling me to back off her girl or she was gonna come after me and blah blah blah. After I stoped laughing I called my sister and told her to control the crazy people in her life a little better. I then messaged her g/f and informed her that first off she's my sister and secondly I'd welcome her to fly out any day cause I'd love to bytch slap her for just being stupid. I'm trying to be supportive of my sister casue I love her greatly, but I'm wondering if there is anything I could do to help her pick a beter mate.
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@sunshinecup (7871)
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7 Sep 07
Nothing in the world you can do but be there for her when she needs you and try to keep her mess from splattering on you. I have brothers and their girl friends/wives have all been nuts to say the least. I have learned there is nothing I can do but protect myself from the mess and wait for it to be over.
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@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
7 Sep 07
I just feel bad when she calls me cause she spends the most of the conversation now going on about how nuts this chick is and how crazy its making her. I keep telling her to just break it off but she hasn't. This girl seems like the fatal attraction type nuts.
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@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
6 Sep 07
As much as you love your sister and don't want to see her get hurt you can't do anything about her choice in mates. You can talk to her and tell her your concerns and try to show her that her behavior and the people she's around affects her life and those around her but she is going to live her own life regardless. We all have different paths we have to walk.
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@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
7 Sep 07
True, I guess I just want to see her do better. It just seems the people she choses are not good enough for her and they hold her back from her full potential.
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