No Friend Of Mine

United States
September 8, 2007 7:17pm CST
So last night my husband and I were at poker night with friends and some family. Unfortunatly one of our friends has a 25 year old daughter who has no manners and who seems to enjoy picking on me. She started by asking if I was mad at her, that's the FIRST thing she said to me. I told her I wasn't. Then she starts judging everything I do, making me look stupid and trying her best to break my husband and I up. Did anyone defend me, not really, just my husband. He had enough of her attitude and I told her she needed to back off. The point is, this girl is the same one who is having an affair with my sister in laws husband, and yes he was there. What would you do if you knew someone who you unfortunatly had to see on occasion but who you could not stand to be around?
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9 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
9 Sep 07
It seems the reason she continues doing this is because her behavior is tolerated. From now on, you should come up with some witty remarks, such as "Before you start cleaning my house, you should really clean yours, if you know what I mean sweetheart" then wink at her, like you share a secret. Or, you could say "Haven't you had enough of breaking up marriages that you have to start on mine sweetie?" then wink at her. That will really get her sweating. Don't be really mean to her, but treat her like you pity her and just be out right nice to her when you make these remarks, it will further outrage her, just never let her see you sweat. You and your husband will get a good laugh. Oh, and after you make those remarks, lean over to your husband and whisper a little bit and giggle together. That really sets them off. You can only turn the cheek so many times. As far as I have counted we only have four and once you run out of those, it's time to take action.
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@kitty1234 (1476)
• United States
10 Sep 07
I really enjoyed your answer! This will aggravate her more then fighting with her, lol. I would love to be there when someone does this to her, it would be worth it to see the look on her face. Sounds like she needs a shot of reality and to grow up!
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
9 Sep 07
i would say to her stop it right now i will not be put on the spot and stop trying to break me and my husband up this has to stop now it takes communication tell her just how you feel and how she is making you feel period
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• United States
9 Sep 07
I had to tolerate a few people occasionally who I would rather not have been around. As I did my best to stay clear of them it was obvious to many. Some asked me why and being the honest person that I am, I told them why. As many of my friends and acquaintences respected my opinion, those people were not invited to the next event.
@Geminigirl (1909)
• United States
9 Sep 07
I would not want to be in a place with a person like that. I would tell my husband how I feel, and tell him that you do not want to go over there when she is there.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 Sep 07
Tune her out! Be polite but offer nothing. Smile a lot and don't let her bother you. Find a friend and talk to her/him. Its not your problem that she's (the 25 yr old daughter) having an affair with your sister-in-law's husband. Just let it go. Be yourself, and be happy! Nothing Matters!
@raychill (6525)
• United States
9 Sep 07
That's easy. My brothers wife and I don't get along. Actually I barely get along with my brother because of this. They live right next door to my parents and I don't see them often even so. When we do have moments together, we're civil, but pretty much stick to our own "sides" of the room so to speak. We don't do anything together. It's always just their kids birthdays and such.
• United States
9 Sep 07
If it were me I'd be putting her in her place big time. I have been in the situation where I had to see someone more than just occasionally and couldn't stand them. Thing is, the anger built up to the point I just blew. Funny thing is that I've not seen that person since. YAY!
• United States
9 Sep 07
I would try my best to deal with her. Dont let her know that its getting to you or she will probably continue to do it. This girl also have no self respect for herself. And try to stand up for yourself. Let her know that your not going to stand for it. Maybe then she will back off. Good luck.
• United States
9 Sep 07
Obviously, this girl is evil. You and your husband should avoid her like a plague mscsrrr.com