What really bugs you about your spouse?
By maybebaby
@maybebaby (1230)
Canada
September 9, 2007 4:33pm CST
I've recently gotten married and people ask me what really bugs me about my husband. Right now there isn't much that does bug me, but it's probably because we haven't been married that long.
What bugs you about your spouse? Somthing they do? Something they don't do?
1 response
@Malyck (3425)
• Australia
10 Sep 07
May I ask how long you were together before marrying? (and did you live together before marriage)?
If it's been over a year, with close living quarters, I'd say that most of the things that might bug you should be known by now =D
So all the power to you, if nothing about him seems to bother you - congrats.
Hmmm. what bugs me about my boyfriend?
A few little, uncommon things, such as making mess and such, but he is also a great cleaner and does the dishes, laundry and so on all the time, so I wouldn't say there were any major problems.
Perhaps sometimes he spends too much time on the computer, but so do I =P
And he actually builds them, I just use them =D
Have a wonderful day, and best wishes to you and your husband.
Malyck
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@maybebaby (1230)
• Canada
10 Sep 07
We dated for 7 years before we got married but have only lived together for about 10 months now (including married). I suppose if I had to pick something it would be that he's a bit absent minded when it comes to cooking. He'll have something on the go and leave it whereas I like to look in on it more often. He hasn't burned anything yet so I probably shouldn't worry about it and seeing as I do most of the cooking it usually isn't an issue.
Thanks for the response and well wishes!
@Malyck (3425)
• Australia
10 Sep 07
Well it's great that you have that history, even if you have not been living with each other for 'long' (in comparison).
I think my boyfriend is a bit like that with the cooking as well =]
I get a little OCD and have to check in constantly, whereas he is happy to sit down and check on it every now and then.
Perhaps his ability to be laid back drives me nuts when I'm on edge =P
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