should a child have their own computer??

@rachsal4 (391)
United States
September 11, 2007 5:21pm CST
So we have been thinking about buying our kids a computer. I don't know, I have reasons for thinking it's a good idea and reason for not..What you you think?
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@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
12 Sep 07
Since we both blog and spend time on the Internet and since the kids are home about the same hours we are, there was always a problem with everyone wanting to log computer time. We did buy another computer (we have three now) and we got a good deal as we bought it in a local shop where the guy puts together computers and sells ones that he takes in trade or buys used and then refurbishes. We got a great machine for less than it costs to supply kids with the latest video game equipment and a few games and at least it can be used for education and in doing homework, etc.
@Rollo1 (16679)
• Boston, Massachusetts
12 Sep 07
Just having to warn her off those flashing "you won a laptop" popups and getting her to turn the computer off.
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@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
12 Sep 07
So do you have any issues since you got them there own?
@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
16 Sep 07
HeHe yes, I think they atract all new users!! LOL
@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
12 Sep 07
Hi there. I think if the child is responsible enough and taught to use the computer right, the ins and outs, I dont think theres a problem with it... Its a little like a child having a cell phone, huge responsiblities and safety issues have to be taught and learnt...
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@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
12 Sep 07
Hi there. Ive never seen or heard of those cool cell phones for kids, I think that is such a brilliant idea and so safe for them to use... Wow!!! Thanks for your comments, have a great day...
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@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
12 Sep 07
Ohh have you seen those new cool cell phones just for kids?? They are so cute, and it only lets them call certain number set in by the parent, and the police!
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• Canada
12 Sep 07
It really depends on the age of the "child." Some parents think their 15-year-olds who live at home are children. I don't think so at all. When I was 16 I got my own computer, and had it in my own section of the house. I was the only member of my family who knew how to use a computer, so I didn't have to share it. I don't believe in actual CHILDREN having their own computer, but teens are not children. If the young person is old enough, and responsible, let them have a computer.
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@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
12 Sep 07
I have three so one is 3yrs, but he doesn't play on it yet. And I have a 4yr. old she LOVES IT!!!! And then a 9yr old, he plays sometimes.
@wurrmed (177)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
It is a good idea. Computers can give a lot of informative stuffs. Just do not forget to have parental guidance
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@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
13 Sep 07
Yeah I think so too, and I love all the software they have out now for kids! And instead of the normal game system, where I have to by some crazy overpriced game they get bored of they are pretty cheap, and you can buy them used for real cheap!
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
11 Sep 07
I think that it would be ok. There is alot they can learn being on a computer. the internet brings access to so much information. but at the same time, i would safe guard it as much as possible. i would block my kids from chat rooms and stuff like that and i would monitor them when using it. it may seem extreme, but watch a couple episodes of dateline's "To catch a preditor" and you'll see why I feel that way.
@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
12 Sep 07
The acually have a thing that lets you give them there own login user name. My four year old knows more about the computer than my husband! LOL. She can only log in under her name, and it only allows her on three sites on the internet that I have approved. That was a concern of mine too, so I thought that was pretty cool!
@MrPahn (173)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
Well, if you have already a good reason, then go for it! And for those bad reasons, I believe you are responsible enough to watch them using the PC. Every bad things that is let alone always grow, so make sure your kids shall learn how to use it wisely ^_^
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@MrPahn (173)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
Haha,, I have a funny thought. After your bought that, I am sure your husband will be the one who will get problems from it. I think he will be addicted to computer games and he is just going to be afraid of it.. hahah.. And yeah,, he could also be worried about the money that will cost him ^_^
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@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
13 Sep 07
LOL, that would be funny! Maybe thats what he's worried about, he just doesn't want to say it!! :)
@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
12 Sep 07
Thats what I was telling my husband, he's the one thats leaning more on the "no" side. As long as we monitor then closely. And kids in this generation are going to need to know how to use the computer, I mean even know most jobs require it! What better way for them to learn...right!
• United States
11 Sep 07
Yes, but it must be a mac, because macs are awesome.
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@rachsal4 (391)
• United States
12 Sep 07
Why are they awesome, just wondering cause I have a Dell??
@runsgame (2031)
• India
17 Sep 07
it depends upon the status of the family , their wealth , freedom & social play s a child can or may have a pc for it own
@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
17 Sep 07
There is nothing wrong with letting your kids have their own computer. The important thing is to provide proper supervision, especially for younger children. There are also programs you can install on your computer to safeguard your children. These can be used along with supervision, but they should still be supervised.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
13 Sep 07
It will depend upon the age of the child. If he/she is less than 16 years, I think he/she should not have a computer of his own, he can use his parents computer.
@msjigga (864)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Hi rachsal4! Thanks for starting this discussion. I was wondering the same thing I have 6 year old daugther she loves playing on the computer. My Daugther hardly ever goes outside to play because we live in a bad neighborhood so my Daugther is always on my laptop. I was thinking about buying her a computer for Christmas because she loves playing on the computer and I need my computer. I will put alot of restictions on internet. Yes computer is a good idea
@mdi0318 (54)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
a computer for a family in general is good but not for childs personal use...so that you can monitor everything if their playing on it...i have 3 kids and we have one computer...i've set rules for my kids how to use computer.like using it for a few hrs. and doing their schoolworks and house works before playing computer..and never argued with each other...they have common interest...GAMES...only educational games not war and bloody games.
• Canada
16 Sep 07
I think it might be a good idea as long as you keep track of what the children do on the computer. It can be a great educational tool.