will you let your bf/gf know your bank password?

China
September 12, 2007 10:16am CST
will you give your bank card to your bf/gf if you live together?
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15 responses
16 May 08
Sure do! We trust eachother. Our's bank code,credit code etc, All is know
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@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
15 May 08
No way! whats mine is mine and whats your is yours.
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Sep 07
Yep, the A/C PWD is not a secret between she and me. Though we are not living together yet. WBR,Andy
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@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
15 May 08
my bf and i weren't living together but he knows my bank password. i do trust him and i know that he's not an abusive type
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
13 May 08
No, not unless we are that close... I have to really trust them, I mean really trust....
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@property (453)
• United States
13 May 08
Funny... my exhusband didn't ever give me access to any accounts. Maybe that should have been a red flag. Anyhow, my mate not only knows my pin, he has changed hs pin to match mine so I could remember it!!! I trust him with the air I breathe. I couldn't imagine not sharing everything with him.
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• United States
12 Sep 07
I don't care if we are just a couple, married, or whatever..nobody is getting my bank account password..my money in my account is my business...he can have a seperate account from mine and feel the same way about it..that would be fine with me..
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
13 Jan 09
It really depends on how much I trust him. If my trust is very high towards him, I wouldn't hesitate to let him borrow anything even bank card.
• United States
12 Sep 07
Wow. I guess I'm different from everyone here. I live with my boyfriend and he does not know my password. What for? I don't see the need for it. I like to have my own money and keep it separate. I find it better this way. My advice to you is do whatever makes you feel confortable. No one can tell you what to do. Do whatever you think is right. If you feel confortable with giving him your password, then fine, BUT if you have your doubts then DON'T.
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
Yes, my fiance and I are completely open to each other. He gives me his bank card all the time. I mean, ALL the time! It's all about trust. As long as you love each other, there should be trust. There is no reason for us to keep or hide anything from one another. But if the relationship wasn't a serious one, maybe we both would have second thoughts about trusting each other completely.
@hailie17 (448)
12 Sep 07
Yes my boyfriend know my bank account code, and my credit card! We have lived to gether for about three months but he's known it for a good while before we moved in. It makes life easier as i get paid monthly and him weekly so we're always having cash off each other when we need it. I trust him 100per cent so i don't think twice about him having access to my money. Anyway i've got access to his!!
• India
12 Sep 07
ofcrse yes....i hav given him many tyms bcos i trust him a lott
@busta1 (1026)
• United States
13 May 08
my gf knows all my passwords...if u really love that person u will let them know everything no matter what it is...:)
@phoenix25 (1541)
• United States
13 May 08
When my husband and I lived together before we were married, we did share a bank account and we both knew the pin numbers and had access to the funds. I would say yes. If I trusted someone enough to live with them, I would trust them enough to share a bank account and for both of us to have equal access to it.
• China
12 Sep 07
Yes,I would.In fact,I believe he would do that to me,either.We are planning to get married next year so I guess its ok for both of us.