family
By meanangel
@meanangel (167)
United States
September 12, 2007 6:54pm CST
Do people in your family try to make you mad?
I ask because my grandmother will try and start a fight for no reason at all. If she knows that I am busy she will start in on why haven't I done other things, or ask questions she knows I don't know the answer to then get mad at me when I do not have a good response. If she can't get me to fight with her then she will try and start a fight between my mother and myself. I can not find a good reason for this.
I do want to know if others have had similar experiences. Also, if there are any good ways to cope with people who always have to have drama when you don't like drama at all. Please tell me beyond never speaking to her how do I avoid unnesasary fights.
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2 responses
@genuinesqueak (325)
• Australia
13 Sep 07
When i was pregnant with my first born, I felt amazing, I really thought i looked terrific, especially for being pregnant. And i am the kind of person who normally has low self esteem, and thinks poorly of themselves. So anyway i thought i was just glowing and looking really healthy.
I'd put on a bit of weight, i was underweight to begin with, so it was all justifiable and i didn't look over weight at all. Anyway we went to my aunties place, where she straight out told me i needed to start doing exercises because my butt was getting to be the size of a house! I was dumb founded. It upset me so much, and we ended up leaving there pretty soon after.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
Well, grandparents are like that...they need attention and they start talking different topics that sometimes hard to relate because we have different views in life too...anyway maybe she just wanted to ask sweet things to you...hehehe
