Best Response

@Pose123 (21666)
Canada
September 13, 2007 11:39am CST
Does everyone find it difficult to choose a best response? I know that I do. I get so many well thought out comments, that I have to read some of them several times, and even then, wish I could give it to more than one. If anyone feels that they should have been given best response, and it went to another, that may be the reason. By the way, I have three discussions with no responses if anyone is interested.
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@ranitam22 (1147)
• United States
16 Sep 07
It is difficult at times for me to choose a best response, especially when there are tons of responses. There is sure to be at least 5 great responses but only one can be the best response. I usually take a little extra time to ponder over which to choose and then i take into consideration how much thought I think was put into the answer, or how well they answered what I was wanting to know or get out of my discussion.
@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
16 Sep 07
Hi ranitam, It isn't easy as you say, and we have to give it a lot of thought sometimes. I find too, that after I've chosen I get more responses. I guess I'll have to wait a bit longer. Thanks for your thoughts. Blessings.
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
yeah, that would be really really difficult especially if you get 50 or more responses. Me, I set a date to when a pick a best response like after two days then after that I gave rating to all other respondent.
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@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
14 Sep 07
Hi lossforredwords, Thanks for commenting, and for your suggestions. Blessings.
@rosie_123 (6118)
14 Sep 07
Well I think it depends with me. Sometimes a reply will just leap out and hit me straightaway as deserving of the Best Response, but other times there are very many answers of the same calibre, and then it is more difficult. I tend to give ine to te person can see s really writing from the heart. Have a good day!
@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
14 Sep 07
Hi rosie, Thanks for responding. I agree, sometimes it's easy because someone says it just perfect, but that's not always the case. Have a great weekend. Blessings.
@ssf12ster (489)
• India
14 Sep 07
see when 2 guys are in talk here and hagglig it out that you think maybe these guys have the best reponse.yes pretty much difficult to find a best reponse.no i never think he or she should be given a best reponse though its a very good idea.others may feel low here.me too i have one with no response at all.
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@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
14 Sep 07
Hi ssf12ster, Thank you for responding. I always like to give a best response. Blessings.
@naturalst (143)
14 Sep 07
as of now i dont have much response in my discussion, im still new here. i think i will find it hard it too to make a decision who is the best resopnse. well i think i have to read carefully their response and see who has the best response. then i will mark it. well i would like to do that i hope i would many resopnse in my discussion soon. i would like to see that people will respond on my discussions.
@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
14 Sep 07
Hi naturalst, Thank you for responding. Since you are new here I would like to say welcome. I have invited you to be my friend. I hope you accept. Blessings.
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
Yes it's really difficult at times, especially when nobody ever bothered to respond to our posts!LoL Honestly, my way of dealing with them is just easy. Since we get every response from different side of the angle and that people will surely agree or disagree, I just choose the first one who provided me the best amongst the rest. Eventhough they are all the same, I always make an effort to choose the very first one. What's more important here is, the responder made valid points and that he/she also added more information than what the topic is being discussed..
@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
14 Sep 07
Hi raijin, Thank you for responding. You make some good points here. Blessings.
@lilywang (67)
14 Sep 07
hhh,i don't know how to choose ,that's so difficult to me to do it !!~~hhhh,maybe everyone is wonderful!!!
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@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
14 Sep 07
Hi lilywang, Thank you for commenting. You are right, everyone is wonderful. Blessings.
@peanutjar (5211)
• Canada
14 Sep 07
I find it very hard sometimes.Sometimes some of the responses are around the same answer or relativley alike.Is that a bait?He,he.
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@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
14 Sep 07
Hi peanutjar, Thank you for responding. you are right, sometimes the comments are almost identical. Blessings.
@AmbiePam (51190)
• United States
13 Sep 07
Yeah, sometimes it can be difficult. There will be several good ones, or you'll award best response, and a really good one is posted right after. It's kind of fun though. Just to recognize someone who did a good job. A simple pleasure I guess. : )
@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
13 Sep 07
Hi AmbiePam, thank you for commenting. I agree it's good to be able to recognize someone who has done well. Blessings.
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@cmsk2005 (1770)
• United States
13 Sep 07
I already have a discusiion here about this so its not in question for me, I alwas do this as I get many good reply all the time an all of them seems so thoughtful and they touch my heart so I get in trouble to find out only one, I wish I could get 3 to 4 would be beter.....hahah
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@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
13 Sep 07
Hi cmsk, Thanks for commenting. I know what you mean. Blessings.
@wiccania (3360)
• United States
13 Sep 07
Sometimes it's difficult to pick the best response. In those cases I narrow it down to 2 or 3 and just randomly pick one of them. Then if I haven't already, I make sure to give the other discussions a + rating.
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@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
13 Sep 07
Hi wiccania, Thank you for commenting. I like to give the + rating too. Blessings.
@alamode (3073)
• United States
13 Sep 07
How can that be, when your questions are so thought-provoking? I will head in that direction... It was hard at first to pick best response because I thought it should go to one of my friends... then I realized that, if a response was exceptional, I should make another friend!
@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
13 Sep 07
Hi alamode, Thank you for the praise, I'm not sure I deserve it. Making another new friend sure makes sense though. Blessings.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
13 Sep 07
Yes, I also have a difficult time choosing the best response specially if I get lots of responses. Sometimes I just don't give anyone a best response because to me several are considered good responses.
@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
13 Sep 07
Hi Mirita, Thank you very much for commenting. I find it difficult, but I eventually give the best response to someone. Blessings.
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@Pompon (1758)
• Poland
13 Sep 07
I usally choose the best response when I have some problem and I would like someone to help me. I's impossible to give the best response mark. When I ask if someone seen a good movie recently, because it's based on people's opinion. as for discussions with no responses, don't worry. Sometimes there's a lot of new discussions so hey may have been covered by them. That's how it is..
@Pose123 (21666)
• Canada
13 Sep 07
Hi Pompon, Thanks for commenting. I agree, sometimes it is next to impossible to pick a best response. As for the discussions with no responses, it's some of my earliest, and you're right, the subject may have been covered by another. Blessings.
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