Have you become more relaxed after having more kids?

Yes, i think it always happens with all those who have two kids, that we feel mch more relaxed with our second kids. I think the reason is because, we have gained that experience, knowledge and now we feel that we can raise the second one on our own too. Whatever fears, apprehensions, tensions, worries, etc, that we had during the first child, are all set aside when the second one is born or there after the kids born. As now, we already know what to expect, we are preapred and guarded, for all those things whihc we were not for the first born. At times, i always feel now that, i was too worried or tensed during my first baby and was worried about every small thing she would start doing and i would stop her much more oftener, so that she does not hurt herself. But with the second one, its like let her be rough and tough and she is just like that, more bold, sturdy, tougher and happy go lucky kinds too, guess it makes all the difference.