Not So Good Days

Let's just hope she understands you, I believe she's mature enough to take things considerately. If you're eager to make amends, then I guess that's a good sign towards a better relationship or even friendship!;) We all have our own bad days at times, I guess it's up to us if we'll let it our affect moods to the extent that we accidentally our loved ones..

Pshaw. Life is a not so good day! Every day I wake up and have to go to work, potential for a not so good day. I don't love my job. I work with an ex-boyfriend. I have to drive 6.8 miles in traffic and it takes me 40 minutes. I get annoyed by co-workers, ex-boyfriend and random other things at work on a frequent basis. I don't like my work enough to enjoy doing it. Then I come home and feel like I wasted my entire day. Weekends aren't usually too bad cause I spend it with myself. That's good. ha ha. But seriously yeah I wake up in horrible moods sometimes and it always seems that those days, nothing makes you lose the mood, everything just goes wrong! I just...I tend to stay quiet and to myself on those days.

Hey there my friend! As a matter of fact I woke up in a weird mood yesterday too. So your not the only one and dont be so hard on yourself. As the day went on I started to get out of. I think there most have been something in the air! I wouldnt worry so much about your friend you did the right thing. You called to apologize. Youll see everything will be fine. Hugs to you I think you could use them.LOL

As a matter of fact I am having one of those days right now. My daughter asked if her friend could stay over last night. I told her to wait and see what happens with the power outage. Our power went out for a couple of hours and after what happened a few years ago I just didn't want to commit to it. She came and slept over even though I never gave the okay. I was utterly exhausted, falling asleep in the couch. My daughter came down and asked me if I was okay, told me to go to bed, rubbed my back and said not to do the dishes they would be done in the morning. I went to bed early and slept well (after cleaning up some kitchen stuff - compost, garbage, recycles) but the kids had the tv on loud in the morning, the daughter who promised the dishes would be washed claimed it was her sister's turn, that she had a friend over. I could also hear them fighting. And I just got so p'd off. My younger daughter wants to go on a sleepover tonight and I am giving her a hard time about it because she has a cold. She gets a cold every September upon returning to school with all those kids and she refused to take the precautionary measures. I don't think a family wants a sick kid sleeping over. I know I wouldn't. So I'm yelling at her. She is crying, claiming she is not sick. Blah, blah, blah. And I suppose you're wondering where my husband is in all this? At a company golf tournament, likely to return home after dinner inebriated. Oldest daughter then asked if she and her friend could ride bikes to the dollar store (on the other side of town). Why? What the heck are you spending what little money you have on now? I said it didn't matter, she was going to do it anyway. So I've been a grouch since I got up. It's probably a good thing DH is not here because if his friends start calling asking him to do this and do that I'll be wailing like a banshee! So, do I have days like that you ask? Uh, yeah! Hope you get things resolved with your friends. Fortunately the people I have been lashing out at our my family members and have to love me unconditionally. LOL!

you have to understand the importance of letting go. you have to let go of those negative thoughts. yeah i know it sounds like crap but it is the only thing that works. when you find yourself in a mood, if you want to get out of it then you have to change your thinking. if you are in a bad mood or feeling moody then think of things that make you happy and hold on to those thoughts, after a few minutes you willlfeel your mood change

I think we all know of that feeling now and again, thinking that we should have stayed in bed that day. When i am in that mood i basically dont give a flying fart about wether i upset people unless its somebody i care for. But they know me anyway and tho an appology is always welcome and accepted, its not needed for the relations to last. No see when i feel like that i send out vibrations not to be misunderstood, WATCH OUT; I BITE IF YOU DARE ME. This means that my surrounding friends knows exactly where they got me and will not dare get on my nerves, especially not if they tried before, lmao.

Well I guess we all have days like that although thankfully I don't have them often. I really hate being in a bad mood but sometimes there's just nothing you can do to shift it is there? When I am like that I tend to keep away from other people if possible so that I can't upset them because I know how mean I can be when I'm in a mood like that.

Yeah,I do that at least once a month.I don't know why I just wake up in a really bad mood.On those days I try to keep to myself as much as possible and only do things I really enjoy.Sometimes it works,sometimes not.I figure it's like crying for no real reason,just a form of release my body needs to get back to my usual self.

when i wake up at weekend mornings unintentionally, like people are so noisy outside and they couldnt care less if there are others who are still sleeping, or somebody turned off my electric fan, or my nieces are fighting with each other, or my brother's adopted daughter is having a tantrum.. i will definitely get up feeling 101% grumpy and b*tchy. ^__^;; and i would sneer at people the whole day. i'll be like a witch but its their fault. LOL i just avoid people when im like that. easier for them, easier for me. safer for them, safer for me. ^__^

I am sure she will forgive you soon honey, after all we all have bad days! I have them more than most just now because of the frustration I feel with the pain and mobility problems I face! In fact I have been a real dragon all weekend and I guess I am going to have to apologise to my family when they come home later! Hugs from one moody woman to another! lol xxx

Lets face it, maddysmommy, we ALL have the occasional horrible day! If someone can't understand this, I wouldn't worry about it. If a friend is a true friend they should understand-unless you just want to placate your husband's friend's fiancee. Women should especially understand those days when you just can't seem to pull it together. Hope you feel better!

Awww..I'm sorry you had a bad day. I think the worst kind of bad days are the ones when you don't even know why you're cranky in the first place. Bad days suck when you have a reason, but it's 10x as bad when you don't know why it's so crappy! I'm sure she'll get over her huff. At least you called to apoligize, if she doesn't accept that, then it's her fault on that end because you tried to make it right. Don't beat yourself up about it, everyone is entitled to at least one free bad day a month.:) I'm sure she's had her share. I can be a witch at times too, and I honestly don't mean to be. My hubby gets the grunt of it most of time. It's a good thing he's calm and patient! Anyways...Cheer Up!:P

I was going through a tizzy myself today...I woke up fine it was later in the day that I seem to be grouchy..Nothing was right, even the dogs upset me...No body was doing anything to me so I am not sure why I was a witch..I am almost thinking mine is due to stress with my neck pain and my hip is acting up as well..I did take a pain pill and I was still fussing...I hope things are better for you today...

well its happen for me many times! that I am not in a good mood! and ended up hurting someone feelings.I do feel guilty about it and blame myself! but its hard for me ask sorry and apologize at all.Because I know I was wrong! I wait tell my guilt is gone before I talk the person I hurt.

I am afraid that I completely understand...lol I have even had days when I did not think I was in a bad mood but everything I said or did seemed to irritate others....sound familiar... We all have days like this....I am unsure why...maybe it has to do with the pull of the moon...hormonal changes...lack of sleep..... Things will blow over, my friend.... Blessed be...

It happens but it seems more rare than it was last decade. Sure I get some weird days where I'm ill or paralyzed with pain and other days where workloads or surprises happen, but nothing real major occurs. I could not be looking hard enough, but I think my bad days aren't really that bad.