OMG Family sux sometimes
@StrawberryKisses (2833)
Canada
September 15, 2007 8:13pm CST
I just need to vent grrrr
Ok for the last 2 weeks my sister and her daughter had been living here and yesterday we got into an argument and my uncle, who lives on the same property, came and asked me what was going on so I told him and he went to get my tobacco back from her. About 5 minutes later i hear screaming from both of them so i ran over there and they were physically fighting. I grabbed my neice and brought her to my house and went back to try and stop them and I did but when my uncle told her to get out of his fifth wheel she kicked him in the nutz and he tried to subdue her but didn't succeed they kept fighting until she was thrown out onto the gravel and he flipped over her.
I just don't know what to do cause i live on the same property as my aunt and uncle and my sister and mother are trying to get me to move out eventhough I can't afford it and would have nowhere to go. My sister thinks I have turned my back on her because I will not take sides in the matter. I don't want to be put in the middle of them. I hate being torn between family members. I really don't wanna move anyway, I just moved here in June and I love it. My son just started kindergarten last week, I don't wanna move him all over the country again especially now that he's in school.
Well anyhoo thanx for listening I think I am done venting (for now anyways LOL)
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@briarose (124)
• United States
16 Sep 07
Big hugs! Just let things settle down a bit. Explain to your sister that this is the best living arrangement for you at the moment and you need stability for your son. You are sorry that she has some differences but at the moment you cannot afford to jeapordize your relationship with your uncle because it would have a great effect on your son. He is the most important person to worry about and if she can't understand that than she is just being a little immature. I hope everything works out in a positive way for everyone involved.
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@StrawberryKisses (2833)
• Canada
16 Sep 07
I wish I could say that was going to happen but it won't happen. When my mother and my sister left here from picking up her stuff they stole my son's puppy so I will never speak to them again. They hurt my son deeply. He was crying tonight thinking we just couldn't find his puppy. He is going to be devistated when he finds out what his Nana and aunty did. I am still not sure how to tell him or what to tell him but I have to tell him something.
Thank You for your reply I appreciate it
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
16 Sep 07
I know the feeling. My family is not very pleasant either, they can be a pain in my side as well, but they are my family.
@StrawberryKisses (2833)
• Canada
16 Sep 07
Yea I wish I could say the same but anyone who steals from my son is not my family. I told them both tonight that I want nothing to do with them ever again. They hurt my boy more than they know. They don'tcare that they hurt him they are trying to say I was beating the puppy and that it was their puppy grrrrr I am still really mad over this. The police won't do anything they are saying it is a civil matter(family dispute) in my eyes and everyone I have told it is theft and theft is theft it should be treated as such.
@zhangxincow (73)
• Taiwan
16 Sep 07
I thought that family is important to individual.Only the family is harmonious,you can cross happily every day joyfully.
Therefore,I thought that you should try to find solution mang and they exchange.Between the family question should be able to solve through the conversation.
Will wish your family to be soon harmonious.Is joyful daily
