what would you feel when your partner lok his celphone with password

United States
September 16, 2007 11:37pm CST
my husband has lots of girl friends as in just friends but and he keeps talking to 1 almost everyday i met the girl before but just hi and hello. my concern is why he has to put some password on his cellphone?i asked him whats going why your doing this and he just said he wants it and he said his credit card and pin number is stored there. i just say nothing. but i felt something is wrong. what do you think?
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@daring (234)
• India
17 Oct 07
i would have said that she is a cheater and not a real love and i would have said that she is a selfist because in love there is no selfisness!!!
@erhardtg (64)
• United States
16 Oct 07
Jack, Personally, I would feel betrayed..for reasons that, we are husband and wife, if there is anybody that he could trust with, I would be the one. Secondly, the way I see his respond when you asked him is not a reason but just an 'excuse'. Lame excuse for that matter. It damn hurts if my husband would keep things away from me, for why would he marry me if he would not trust me. So what if you will know the credit card numbers or pin numbers or whatever number..you are entitled for that...YOU ARE THE WIFE. It's not being nosy, its being you as the wife. Anyway, sort/talk things out with ur hubby and don't forget to remind him that you are HIS WIFE.
• United States
17 Sep 07
Dont be to quick to jump to conclusions. Talk to him about it. Do you feel he might be cheating on you? Tell him how you feel about him locking his phone. What does he have to hide? And Why would you store your credit card number and pin on your phone in the first place?? You should talk to him about it. Dont be upset just concerned.
@slothgurl (569)
• Enumclaw, Washington
17 Sep 07
How would he feel if you did the same with men? I would trust your gut instinct. If you think something is up, it probably is.
@xygui14 (19)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
the question there is why are you letting your husband getting closed to other girls out there????????????? i had a husband too,and he knows that when he marry me, im the only girl he can get closed for all of his life... of course including her mom and some relatives, but for me no other girls around,we can have fun with our childrens, no need to have girlfriend to enjoy life... not including all singles there!