Please go home!!!!

I guess my friends and I are pretty lucky in that the bond we have is such that we can point-blank say "Go home. Get out." =p Most of the time when my friends get together it's always at the same couple's home, and they pretty much say "get out" when they're done having guests. And we all go, and no one is annoyed about it. Lately my husband and I have been having company most of the time on Monday, since he was running a roleplaying game on that day, and we did the same thing. When the game was over, and people were lingering about talking for a little too long, we'd be like "Okay, time to go." I guess it just depends on how close you are to the person. If he were my husband's friend and not mine, I might tell my husband to tell him to leave before doing it myself. And if my husband refused to do so, then I might tell them both to get the heck out. *giggles*

o...o...Laurika, an easy matter my dear friend. If next time the occasion recurrence to you, you just mention earlier that you have something up to do with your outdoor activity for the next couple of hours. But must be cooperatively done with your fiancee. OR wanna go to the clinic.....stomachache!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How odd. I don't think anything like this has happened to me. Hopefully this is a one time thing. How does your fiance feel about this? When my husband goes over to his friends' places, he usually comes home that night. He might stay the night, but at the friends' who have girlfriends/wives/kids, he never feels comfortable staying the night because well, they only have one bathroom, and the girlfriend usually needs to have a shower. He doesn't want to be around and in the way. You should mention to your fiance that you feel awkward with his buddy around all day like that.

i know exactly how you feel. my husband always does that...bringing home with him some drinking buddies who i haven't met yet and having no personal background yet. it's driving me crazy really! maybe we can try talking to our partners about that issue...i haven't tried talking to him about it yet though i have been contemplating on talking to him about it.

hi friend, I am from India. and I love football, but in India craze of cricket is more than football. So, I cann't enjoy football as enough. thanks

Oh, I totally understand I'm going through the same thing with my husbands family. They won't go away!!!! There driving me crazy always her, and never leaving!!

Yes, sometimes it happens in everyone's life. In my case, many a time it happened. Once or twoice, we straightaway told these kind of undesirable persons to leave the house. On many occasions, those who come without invitation are polititely sent out, staying that we are going out for some work. In many cases, we do not entertain such people in the beginning itself. In a few cases, as soon as they arriave, they are served with food and we make such a hurry that they have to leave. There are really good people we want them to stay with us, usually the elderly ones and leave the house in their custody and we go out for our work.

Did you talk to your fiance about it? Did he invite him to stay? I can understand if he drank to much and you didn't want him driving like that, but staying until 7 the next night is a bit much. I've had issues with lack of privacy in my life too. It is hard sometimes to ask a person to leave. You feel like that would be rude, but of course, the reason you were put in that position was because someone else was being rude or inconsiderate first. I don't understand how some people don't realize whent hey are overstaying their welcome.

Just be upfront about it. Try to assess the situation first. What is the problem? What can't you do if another person is in your house? If that bothers you, then tell him you can't function well without your privacy. Once he goes out, don't invite him again.

If I had such a case, I would call his wife or girlfriend to come and take him home to have a good sleep. It is always more convenient for him to stay in his own home. I don't like someone drunk in my home making such a mess and you will have to take a lot of time to take care of him. I think that it is better to notice one's own politeness while visiting somebody's home to make both parties comfortable.

o...o...Laurika, an easy matter my dear friend. If next time the occasion recurrence to you, you just mention earlier that you have something up to do with your outdoor activity for the next couple of hours. But must be cooperatively done with your fiancee. OR wanna go to the clinic.....stomachache!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well ,in my opinion, you should tell your fiancee your true feeling about such things ,he can invite buddys to play at home,but you also need your own privacy , next time ,if he want to play with his buddys , they should not bother you ,if not ,please go away

well, i remember when i was young, lots of my parents' friends would come to my house, and from time to time,they would stay my home for a whole night! i was little then, i need sleep, and i didnt like that:( maybe if i get a huge villa, it won't be a big problem for this:)