So the marriage keeps failing...

@matt24 (25)
Philippines
September 18, 2007 5:24am CST
they have been married for 6 years. they have one child. the husband and wife cant seem to get along anymore. they only get along after weeks of seperation, when everbody has cooled down. For a wife to be living this way is depressing. She give herself everytime to his husband's need and when the time comes they dont get along anymore, she's loses her pride. The thing is its becoming like a routine. I say get on with your social life, meet guys too, have a steady friend and enjoy his company.Its always easier to cope with loneliness and depression this way.Talk to a guy friend who's as depress as you are in his marriage. Share thoughts and talk it out.This helps boosts ego. Be both cool with each other yet rarely emotional. Uncool husbands has to realize that wives can still have a life outside the home besides their kids.
2 responses
• India
3 Oct 07
well, there are differences everywhere but one should communicate and let the other know what really is the problem. maybe communicating will help bridge the misunderstanding and the problems. Try to give space to each other and maybe try to change certain things, add a flavour of newness.
@valmiki9 (1171)
• India
18 Sep 07
In India we match horoscopes for compatibility between the couple. In a well matched couple there is good understanding and they adjust to ech other. The only pre requisite is the astrologer has to be frank and honest