Would you consider having an affair?

By gems
Philippines
September 18, 2007 6:05am CST
This goes to everyone from all walks of life who have been or are in love right now. We fairly know or have heard that no one is an island; that no one could live in ths world without another person. But if you're already married or about to marry, already has a partner, a steady girl or boyfriend or in a relationship, would you ever consider having a fling or an affair with someone whom you are mysteriously attracted with? What do you think are the factors or situations which one encounters to urge or force him to have an affair simultaneously while already having a partner? Does a contented man or woman in love thinks of having an affair with another? Please share your thoughts.
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@ESKARENA1 (18296)
18 Sep 07
I have never had an affair and would never want one, but believe that we should never say never because we never know what may happen in the future blessed be
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• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Concise but very appropriate answer you've got there. I also have this conviction in life. I don't want to enter in an affair outside of my marriage, but it's also apt that we can never be sure of what lies ahead of us. Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
Hi there, what's been up to lately buddy? Well, honestly, i am a one woman man and i don't tend to cheat on my girl as i don't want that to happen again anymore. It is so painful and it hurt me specially my ego when it happened on me before and i was so inloved with that girl before but she was Ggrrrrr. Anyway, having an another affair to someone while having a girlfriend is just a playful thing i guess. They just try to do new things, experience some adventures, and see for their selves how cool is to be single and enjoy life. And having another girl while having the 1st one, doesn't mean that you don't love anymore your first one, it's just that, every man have their needs. And it happens, specially if both parties are separated with far distances. Have a nice day ahead and happy posting and earning here in mylot. Godspeed, Kiko
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
I find it quite unlikely to hear a man state that he's a one-woman man but I feel that you are a sincere person and I hope that I'm right in feeling so. I believe that what you've felt before was so painful because I've been in this situation before. And I was in the losing end, too. But when I come to think of it, it's actually not my loss, but his. Anyway, I guess we really should think of all the circumstances and effects of our doings before we go through it. Thanks.
@jodenton (222)
18 Sep 07
I personally can't ever imagine having an affair. I can imagine wanting an affair but I can't imagine ever following through on them! It took me nearly two years of careful thought to enter into the relationship that eventually became my marriage so I think I suffer from head ruling heart too much!!! I reckon 99% of people who have affairs didn't plan on having them. Its just situations and decisions that have to be made. Like relationships unless you're in the situation I don't think you can hope to understand.
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Honestly, I've also gone through imagining that I have an affair outside marriage. But I hope it's just that - a love affair only in imagination. My husband & I were in a relationship for 2 and a half years before we decided to tie the knot. I also believe that people who don't plan to have an affair are not free or have an immunity to not be involved in an affair. It's a personal decision anyway.