What makes you fall in love with a Person

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Hi, I dont know what exactly makes a person fall in love with some one. I dont remember what happened with me. Because it just happened with out my notice on a long go of 5 yrs, and I lately realized that I loved her with out my knowledge. I never loved any one again after the break up and could not love any one. I was lost in her love, and could not look at the things going around me for a long time, and by the time I am normal, everyting going around me started looking strange, and I feel like, i am grown up suddenly, from 18 yrs to 24 yrs directly, and could not match up with the surroundings. So, i still dont understand lot of things about people, what they look for in me, what they exactly mean through by words. Every one says that i need to growup to knwo the things aroound, and girls are still mystery to me. I feel lonely, and feel like having a partner, but I am puzzled about finding one. Let me know what made you fall in love the your loving one? and do you really love her, love her in such a way that she is your life, and she is your world?? and there isn't any selfish deal in the relation??