LOVE Needs Sacrifice !!! Is It Just??
By saunty
@saunty (604)
India
September 19, 2007 2:49pm CST
Many of the time situation as such arises when ur partner dump you and gets in relation with someone and you are still in love wid him/her. Now at this particular situation is it just to allow ur partner to carry on with whom so ever he/she in love ,with inspite of that you love him/her so much and cant even live without??
why should any one sacrifice on cost of his own life??
what you people think in this regard??
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8 responses
@2babita (1072)
• India
21 Sep 07
Well,I think little sacrifice is required but if you mean patner(husband)then no,if you mean bf then it is different.Love is totally a different thing which nobody can express.I think he/she who is doing this they are just friends.Bcoz people can love after marriage before that it is just infatuation and nothing else I think so.
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@saunty (604)
• India
21 Sep 07
well !! the way you differentiated between a boy frnd and a husband, so u mean to say that u can have multiple boy frnds but can have only a single husband !!but i would like to ask , if suppose ur husband once comes to know that u had so many boy frnds in ur early life what u think he will do??
will he even accet u in such conditino?
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
All kind of love needs great sacrifices. But it is the essence of loving. You can not always have to recieve. You must also give. Even if entails sacrifices. Taht's the law of love. It is a two-way relationship.
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@saunty (604)
• India
21 Sep 07
Give?? !! but whom to give and what to give and why to give?? someone who has dumped you and wanted to be in relation with someone else, why would we let him do so?? we are not just a toy or something that whenever you wished you played and when you are satisfied u will dump us!!
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
21 Sep 07
i think in this case, it will be better to let him go and be with the someone new...there's no point pining over someone when he don't love you anymore. If you really love someone, the most important is that he's happy (i know, this is easier said than done...) but whatever it is, always believe that someone better will come along and you deserve someone much better than the guy who dumped you for someone else!!
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@saunty (604)
• India
21 Sep 07
Its not that easy the way you are saying , once you are in love with someone, its not that easy to forget that person....and the mentallity of having something better than what u have may always take you to the durth of darkness. u can never achieve happiness of u go on thinking of something better what you have...
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
that's just how it goes. there are things which are inevitable. and love is just one of it.. love is powerful, it can make us so selfish, sometimes it makes us so patient, sometimes it make us strong, sometimes it causes us to lose hope. love, love, love, there are so many tragedies in this world cause by that four letter word. and there are so many people experiencing euphoria because of it too... it's crazy!
@saunty (604)
• India
21 Sep 07
yeah friend i do understand what u mean here ny saying that love is crazy and it makes us experience euphoria...but thats what i wanna ask, why !! why is this always like this? why people has to suffer out of this, why cant it be normal as rest of the relation in this world...why its always so bitter...it sometimes bother me a lot !!:(
@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 07
Well saunty, i have been in that situation before.. it happens..because you love that person so much.. and knowing she or he dump you.. u still love that person.. and kept thinking of the memories .. the sweet moments that you both had before. Its very common.. but its really dangerous too.. it might lead to hate, jealousy and might take away lives too.
This happens because of the feelings you have shared to your lover.. but its will go off slowly.. i guess
@saunty (604)
• India
21 Sep 07
Friend you are no doubt very correct in whatever u said, the feeling of jealousy and the craziness for your partner will definitely be there , and it may even take lives, thats the reason i am asking this Question to all of u , why to let any sich situation arise, cant we take out a remedy which can stop any such gory situation to prevail in couples here n our society...
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@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 07
Thanks for your response sauty.. i appreciate your intentions.. and i willing to help.. but i too dont know how could i extend my help to those who are facing it. Its very personal.. i believe.. only those who is close to them can help them or comfort them. God Bless
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@xirthum (78)
• Brazil
19 Sep 07
I think that yes, if you love someone, some "sacrifices" are need, just to make a better relationship between you and your partner.
