The 10 commandments of soul mates

all of the above :) but im MY order ( if i may? ..) 1) LOVE 2) respect 3) communication 4) commitment 5) realistic expectations - which usually goes hand in hand with the sence of humor lol the rest as u like them :) as for inter-dependance - sure! to a point u have to be ur own person as well - u may have a blended life together... joint bank accounts, mortgage, both names on cars/insurance etc.. but keeping UR own identity is also VERY important -u can NOT live by/with/for anyone else but u - KEEPING ur *soulmate* close OH DEFFINETLY!! but to *blend* with nothing that is U - no! :( when it becomes CO-DEPENDANCE NOT good :( *I know how he feels about me/and me for him... COLD!! - which means ( to us) no doubts, no fears, nothing standing in the middle/in the way! nothing! I KNOW and trust him COMPLETELY!! without possesivness,jelousy or *leashing* him anyway! he is him and i am me - WE are together but always ourselves I hope that makes sence - if not its ok it does to us :)XX lol

Lets compare this to the harpies I had the displeasure of being with 1.Love (no, all lies) 2.Support (no) 3.Tolerance (no, didn't care for many of my dreams and hobbies) 4.Communication (somewhat, but mostly so they can brag or BS) 5.Realistic Expectations (no, a few diggers, a few double cheaters) 6.Caring (no, lies again) 7.Sense of humour (no, lies on their end, only I had genuine humor) 8.Commitment (definitely no) 9.Respect (no, especially those that tried to cheat on me) 10.Inter-dependence (no, I'm very self sufficient, they were worthless)

Yes I am currently experiencing that in my life. It's beautiful! There's nothing more to ask for! I guess there is one bottomline for all those items you posted. That is to accept and realize that this one person is just as human as you are! It's accepting those needs, and to be willing to give to the other's same needs too.