What will you do if you find out that your husband is a gay?

Philippines
September 20, 2007 10:37pm CST
You find out that he is having an affair with other man.
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6 responses
@cyntrow (8524)
• United States
21 Sep 07
I was married to a gay man for two years and we had a son. He was never unfaithful to me, for which I am grateful, but he was enormaously unhappy at living a lie. Since we split up, he found a great guy to spend his life with and i was "best man" at his committment ceremony. I'm glad he finally found himself. I'm sorry it took 40 years.
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
And finally you moved on with your life. That's nice of you.
@cyntrow (8524)
• United States
25 Sep 07
No, he moved on with his life. My life never stopped. I've always known who I am.
• United States
21 Sep 07
OMG, I couldn't imagine. I believe my ex may have been gay. Since we have broken up he still hasn't had another girlfriend and that was like 2 years ago. And there we're rumors from before we got together like, he had ran away with some guy that told him he was in love with him and love letter was found in his room when he left. I don't know if it was true because I never caught him cheating on me with a guy. I do have to say that I would probably be very hurt and couldn't help but wonder how I wasn't good enough. Or even if I was responsible for making him gay. Which I don't believe that is possible, but I'm sure those thoughts would go through my head. My husband has had 2 ex-girlfriends who turned out to be gay. I tease him all the time about it. But it's different when it's girls.
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
If a man is a gay, it's hard to change.
@cyntrow (8524)
• United States
25 Sep 07
If a man is gay he can't change.
@Ravenladyj (22936)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I'd kick his everloving behind for hiding things from me then I'd have him invite his bf over for dinner and to meet the family :-D If he's gay he's gay..doesnt matter to me any, so long as he's happy ya know...
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
Ha!Ha!Ha! He has nothing to hide. Seriously, The same thing with me, I'll be happy if he will be happy too.
@mauier113 (688)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
I dont know what will I do. But definitely I'll be shocked because I cant ever imagime my husband is a gay.
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
You will know what to do when it happens to you.
@jhanna (335)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
I would be shocked of course. I would have to talk with heartedly. I would ask him why did he keep this from me, we shouldn't have fell in love in the first place and got married. I would feel betrayed for keeping this from me. I think I should file a divorce. There is no use for our marriage to go on even if we have kids, it doesn't matter. I can't go on living with man whom I love who is gay. Things would never be the same. I can't just stick with him no more.
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
Some gays would really want to hide from their family. They'll get married and built a family, but they can't hide it forever because it will really comes out.
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
I don't think the relationship will still work out once I found out that my husband is gay. I mean, what's the point of continuing with the relationship when all he wants is a man?!! Right?!! EEEwwwww....
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
You will be hurt because he is unhappy with your relationship because all he wants is a man to be happy.