parents as role models!!!!

India
September 21, 2007 7:55am CST
We all have role models. Atleast some actors/actresses. and we always try to be like them,do what they do and become like them one day. But many friends of mine and also i have heard from people that parents are the best role models in anyone's life. Try to be like them and inspire from them - Do you think parents would be or could be the best role models in your life or in one's life ? what do you think about this thing ? however,i feel parents are the only people who care for you in the world no matter whatever status/condition you are in. what you think about this also ?
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@Ramsakha (205)
• India
21 Sep 07
Yes, I also believe that parents are the natural role models for children. Children always look up to their parents and want to be like them. But many parents do not realize this and create bad examples before their children. Increasing violence in society can be contained if parents create good examples from their behaviour before their children.
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• India
22 Sep 07
I guess you have seen many people like that. anyways nice point.
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@Ramsakha (205)
• India
25 Sep 07
Thanks for appreciating my point of view.
@vinzen (1020)
• India
21 Sep 07
Hi, i think parents are the only role models in our lives and we in turn have to live up to our kids and be their role models as well. What the kids learn from actors and other people around, is just for a small time, till those people are on the top or when they do or particiapte in good things, but they also play many roles in their moves, negative ones also, and kids may follow suit and do things they are not supposed to do as well. But parents will always love, care, guide and love you for what you are, and they will always try their level best to do the best thats for you, so we as parents have to try to be and play up their expectations as kids also look upto parents and us for answers, for solving their problems , for help, guidance etc, and we do all these things for them, and somewhere down the line, we are helping them out and in their minds we do make an impact, though the kids may not admit to it, but this feeling of looking upto their own parents, the feeling that my father or mothers the best, stays on i think. At least for me it always stays and there are no one like my parents,and now that i am a mother, i try to be like my mother, i try to be like her, think what and how she would have solved a particular problem or how best she would have handlled a situation etc, as shes been my role model and i hope and pray that one day i can be the same for my own kids too.
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• United States
29 Dec 07
One small problem. My parents had children, I don't want children.My parents were married, I am never marrying anyone.They were good people but I would be miserable trying to following in their footsteps.Role models are the people you look up to and you get to choose.
@lols189 (4742)
25 Sep 07
i agree that parents are role models as these are the people we look up to when we are younger and we learn from them
@dbhattji (2506)
• India
26 Sep 07
That is true, It is said that one mother is worth ten teachers, they teach us when we are in very impressionable age, and we learn more by watching their behavior than by what they say.
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Parents are role models to their children. So whatever you are as aparent, most likely your children will be. Your influence to your children is so great that they imitate you. So most of the times, when our children went wrong, they are always questioning what kind of parent you are.
• United States
22 Sep 07
Parents should be good role models for their children, but a lot of the time, they are not.
21 Sep 07
I think parents are role models because we have to follow in their footsteps as they are more experienced than we are; they love us and wont lead us astray.
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
i think that parents are also like us,like any ordenary people who have much experience. and it should be a role model. but it doesnt mean that they should be perfect too.my mom is nice and great but she is not perfect.i learn something from her and she learm something from me too.all i can say that she is my besfriend.