homewreckers
By barbiegirl13
@barbiegirl13 (1588)
United States
3 responses
@mauier113 (688)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
That kind of girl was my biggest problem some years ago. A real flirt, flirting with my husband. Knowing he's my husband but still flirted with him telling me why she didn't first meet my husband before I did. And my husband had a hard time avoiding her. She always sends sweet text messages and even calling him and asking for a date. What a gir! she had this thing to break our marriage down but I didn't allow her.
@barbiegirl13 (1588)
• United States
21 Sep 07
They same thing happened to me the only thing was, She had broke my relationship with my daughters dad then broke up a relationship I had had for five years with another man! I don't understand why they just can't find someone single. I could never imagine doing this to anyone. The pain and hurt last along time
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@anonymili (3138)
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21 Sep 07
People like that need a good slap. If some woman was chasing after my hubby and he made it clear he had no interest in her, she would get the biggest slap from me. Well I say that now but in reality I would probably tell my hubby that it was down to him to let her down gently or to make sure he made it clear he was happily married and had no intention of leaving me. At the end of the day, it takes two to tango and if a man encourages a woman who is chasing him, he is the one in the wrong and he deserves the slap not the woman. Far too often, when men have affairs the other woman gets blamed but often there are men who go chasing after a bit of fun and don't even tell the other woman that he's married, so we have to get our facts clear before we condemn someone :)
@barbiegirl13 (1588)
• United States
21 Sep 07
Nah in my situation she new who he was with both of them. I just can't believe that 2 different men cheated on me with the same girl. And she was actually mad that I still lived in the house. I tried to leave for a long time but he kept telling me that is was me that he wanted. When it it was said and done I moved away. We still dated but I found out later that he was still seeing her. So I left for good!
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@anonymili (3138)
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15 Oct 07
So sorry to hear of your situation, it seems this woman is hell bent on destroying YOUR relationships. Are you sure she doesn't have some sort of obsession with you? Is she trying to prove something to herself or to you by causing some much grief in your life? Maybe you need to confront her and ask her why she needs to go after the men you are with and why can she not try to find her own men, or is she just after your used men? Maybe she is in awe of you (well maybe not but you can tell her you think she is) that's why she has to try and get anything you have because you're so special to her and she wants everything you have... She needs a sharp dose of reality and a lesson in how to get her own man... Maybe you could fix her up with someone and then steal him away for her just to show her how it feels?! I don't mean that last sentence but it's an idea...! Good luck hun. x
@babiixgiirl (258)
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16 Nov 07
Ack, my parents' marriage was broken up by a woman like this - my father's still with her, and expected me to be 'friends' with this woman, when I was younger. I suppose, for most men, it's about the novelty. For example, my parents were married for 20 years, and I think, for my father at least, it was just the novelty of knowing that another woman was actually willing to look at him twice, perhaps?
There are always going to be women in the world that aren't content with only having single men, but want that one that's married, too - but just think of this; if they do succeed, and get someone else's husband/boyfriend, they'll have to wake up every morning, wondering if that same guy's still there, wondering if he'll leave them, like he left his wife/girlfriend for her.
