How do you relax

@TerryZ (22076)
United States
September 21, 2007 3:10pm CST
So tell me how do you relax? What do you do? Sometimes I like to sit down with a good book and have lots of munchies with me. And other times I like to crotchet a blankett. I also like to watch a good movie with my hubby. Then if I have some extra money around I will spurlge and get a massage. That one is the best.LOL But its costly.LOL So tell me how you relax. Share with me
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33 responses
• United States
21 Sep 07
I have many ways of relaxing. I either read a book, listen to music while singing, and eat while doing the above. Or i like to watch T.V by myself without any noise at all.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
21 Sep 07
Now that sounds pretty good!LOL That reminds me the other day I was at a store and I heard someone singing in the aisle. Then I saw it was a young girl and I said was that you singing and she oh yes. I told her she was good.
• United States
21 Sep 07
Yeah i love to sing it helps me relax and makes me laugh which i don't do much when I'm stressed out with homework and work. So i try to at least spend 30 minutes a day singing or dancing. It comes easy to me anyways since i am majoring in the performing arts in my school.
@megumiart (3771)
• United States
21 Sep 07
I like to read, watch a movie at home or paint. having snacks at the same time helps, too :]
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
21 Sep 07
That sounds good.
• India
22 Sep 07
kool
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Reading, cross stitch or sleeping. Sometimes I'll play one of my mindless pc games. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
All sounds good.LOL
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
watching my all time favorite movie city of angels is what i do to relax..also smoking and having a coffee is good when the weather is not hot..i also go to the salon to have a foot spa and have my hair done when i'm super stressed..also i wanna have a long bath listening to music..thats how i do it..neither one of those.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
I love going to the spa the most. I wish I had the money.LOL
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
22 Sep 07
Hi TerryZ, I like to relax with a good book too, but I also like to spend some time each day in silence. I just find a quiet place, get comfortable and relax. I try to clear my mind as much as I can and not think of anything. It's difficult, especially at first, as we are not use to just 'being'. The clue here is not to get upset if you find yourself thinking about something you have to do or whatever. Just relax again and start over, it gets easier with time. Remember never 'try to relax', it defeats the whole purpose, just relax. In time it can become a wonderful experience. Remember also that we are human 'beings', not human 'doings', sometimes we just need to 'be'. Hope some of this makes sense to you. Blessings.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Yes it does make sense thankyou!
@thefortunes (2367)
• Netherlands
22 Sep 07
just outside of Amsterdam - photo taken just outside Amsterdam
Hi TerryZ, usually I relax like you while reading a good book in bed, and eating some nuts while reading, combining these two is doing me a lot of good mentally;) An other thing I like is grab my camera and go out and about and find some nice looking place in nature where I can take some good shots, like the one attached. Love nature and brings me peace of mind;) TheFortunes
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Thats a great idea!
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Sep 07
Nothing eases stress better for me than a nice warm bubble bath, I've been taking baths for as long as I can remember and it always makes my day a little better. Also, I'm ashamed to say, I eat to calm myself down too...naughty I know!
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Who am I to judge!LOL
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Sep 07
Well my Way of relaxing is lying in my Bed at Night and reading my Book and loose myself in another World I just love that time as nothing bothers me while I am reading I am not in this world I am somewhere else
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
21 Sep 07
I do that to gabs. Its great.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
21 Sep 07
Get a manicure or pedicure, read a book on the balcony, watch a good girlie flick with munchies LOL, go for a walk, sleep or catch up on some tv shows i've missed.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Thats sounds great what time should I pick you up?
@noriko (1254)
21 Sep 07
a good foot spa is my favorite way to relax. and a cup of coffee after the spa is a +.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Sounds great.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Relax?? Relax?? I don't have time to relax much...LOL--I'm always UP to something....like recently working on two of three grants..still need to do the third, my fall cleaning, and working on that flyer for that pet rescuer...writing articles, short stories Just kidding..I do take SOME time to relax by taking a nice hot soak in a tub, with candle lit and incense going...then fix a little late night goodie to eat while I plop on one of my DVD movies to watch awhile, then go to bed and cuddle up with a book to read for a bit, that is if Pyewacket allows me to read...he seem to think reading is boring and usually likes to lie on my book while I try to read--but I do this little ritual every night
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
I know my cats like doing that too.LOL
• Canada
21 Sep 07
I relax in a number of different ways...massage is great and thankfully I have a hubby with magic hands that continually help my body relax after being at the computer most of the day. I love hot soaks with Epsom salts within the bubbling jets in our tub. I fill it up, light some candles and incense add bubble bath in a favorite scent put on some calming music and say "ahhhhhhh' as my body sinks into the warm water. I also have a sanctuary up in our attic filled with special objects that remind me of my spiritual passages. I light candles, lie down, put on contemplative music that stills my mind and I do to that Quiet place Within. Doing yoga helps to bring mind and body to a more relaxing place. Walks in nature help, snuggling with my Sweetie and watching a movie with our 2 dogs and 5 cats. Dancing and losing myself in the music is another good way for me to find a calm center. Playing computer games, going shopping and visiting friends are all activities that assist me in releasing tension and everyday stressors.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
21 Sep 07
That all sounds great. Good for you we all need to do that.
@hailie17 (448)
21 Sep 07
I like to curl up on my sofa under my duvet, with my boyfriend and some chocolate, and watch trashy tv or a movie. It's actually one of my favourite things to do on the weekends! Other times i enjoy running a steamy hot bubble bath and lighting lots of scented candles and lying back in it until the skin on my fingers and toes goes all wrinkly. Sometimes i even drift off!
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
21 Sep 07
Oh I love lighting candles I do that everynight. Its my routine around here.LOL
• China
22 Sep 07
i like to go out ,enjoy the fresh air,the beauful flowers and it good to my health too.sports are good ways to relax
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Enjoy yourself.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
22 Sep 07
i too love to read a great book. it is one of my favorite things to do. i love to sit and watch tv which is my other favorite thing to do. i have never gotten a massage before but my wonder 17 year old son has gotten me and my very best friend a day at the spa for my birthday!! i am so excited and can't wait until my birthday!!
25 Sep 07
Thanks for the best response hun :-)
@wasons (302)
• China
22 Sep 07
hello terryz!many people have their different ways to relax,for me i always talk with my friends online,and also i like reading novels,listening music,watching TV or even cooking something delicious.
@huntbird (277)
• China
26 Sep 07
My method to relax is to take a bath and then lying on the bed,don't think anything.If you have a girlfriend to give you a massage ,it is more great.
@Murom0 (15)
• Russian Federation
7 Jul 08
Get Active! Being active makes me forget all worries. I'm too focused on whatever activity i'm doing to be stressed. At work I watch nature clips at http://www.relaxwithnature.com It always works for me.
@jasyjen (162)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Funny, but I relax by surfing the internet. When I'm online chatting with people, or playing games, or whatever it is I'm doing, I'm not thinking about finances or relationship troubles.....I'm just vegging out.