Hate
By shy_gal
@shy_gal (235)
Malaysia
September 21, 2007 9:28pm CST
Do u hate someone before? What you will do if really hate her because she cheat you and your family? When u try to give her another chance, who knows she still cheating you!!! So should give her another chance? Or just forget this person in our life??
7 responses
@mooncakemooncake (66)
• China
22 Sep 07
forget her,life is short,dont waste time on the person who you hated
@mooncakemooncake (66)
• China
22 Sep 07
you can treat him as nothing was happened.but dont trust him anymore.i mean,you wont trust him anymore,but dont let him notice that.
@Mythel (157)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
I also hated someone before because of what she did in our family.I hated her so much she made my life a miserable when i was still young. I call her as witch because her face is like a witch.I noticed that I am not the only person who hated her much but i knew some people who hated her too.She's really bad.Onetime she ask for forgiveness and because I am very kind to animals I forgave her, knowing that she was so sincere, but i was wrong that i forgave her because she did something wrong and very worst thing in my life and until now the wound is still there. so bad..very bad!
@shy_gal (235)
• Malaysia
18 Jun 08
Maybe the time is the best medicine..maybe one day when we are old,we wont hate that person who ever make our life in a miserable. Hope we can recover soon and didn't hate them anymore as this is not good for our health..
So we can get a lesson from there too as don't too kind to the people that ever hurt us before and get away from them.
@Kanesha1028 (154)
• United States
16 Jun 08
I have problems with forgiving people. But as many people say, life is too short. Eventually you will get over it
@shy_gal (235)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
i know that i will feel peace if i forgive him..but it is so difficult.. when a person cheat and lie to you every time, he will no longer be your friend.
Although i have ignore him, but he will talk something back of me to my friend, seem like i am a bad friend.
Anyway, thanks for your comment.
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
Yes, I did hate someone in my life and that is my past boyfriend. He cheated on me and he accepted it too. We were already in a relationship for more than three years when I received a call in the office from a lady who told me that she is with my then boyfriend in a house. So, what she wants to tell me is that they have a relationship. The more painful thing is, she is one or two months pregnant already. That was a great shock for me. But I tried to keep my calm and I just cried in the office bathroom. Later that day, I confronted my then boyfriend and he had no choice but to accept the break-up. He had been miserable after that. We were in the same company so I can't help but notice it. I really thought he would decide to marry the girl but to my surprise, they never married until we parted ways. I resigned from the office after more than a year. I have forgiven him but I can't forget what he's done to me and I did not give him a second chance for reconciliation.
