September 23, 2007 8:48am CST
if this is my blog may be it would be all about my hubby. day and night. here i am in the room and he is upstairs talking with my officemates. why is it that he is so insensitive? i feel so lonely here and i want to be hug but he is very "busy" talking about nothin!
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24 Sep 07
I know the feeling. My husband is a soldier and whenever he has some of the other soldiers come over I feel totally invisible. Why is it that our husbands seem to think that when there are other people over that we don't exist? Although I might add my husband has became a little better about knowing that I actually exist when they come over, which I am really glad for. But I am sure everything will get better for you.
25 Sep 07
geesh, how i wish we will really get better but as i see it everyday seem to rob off our sweet feelings for each other. it seems that we forgot to be kind to each other instead we get into fights every now and then. i really do love my guy but i hate our relationship this time.
23 Sep 07
Why don't you ask him to hold you? Tell him that you need for example 30 minutes a day with him without any distractions (no phones, no TV, just the two of you having some quality time together). I find that it's the easiest solution for this kind of problem. The thing is, he probably doesn't know what you need and how much you need it. But tell him gently, not in a nagging way and pick the right timing to do it. Tell him that you know he's busy, but it'd make you happier if he can spend a bit more time with you every day and that's all you're asking.
25 Sep 07
thank you for that. i will try to do that. we have been together for the past five years and somehow some things have change. like, i do not normally talk to him these days instead i kind of nag to him already. gosh! how i wish i could experience the spark that we had when we first met.