the way it usedto be

I don't know what you've written about your husband about now, I'm just concentrating on your current post. Firstly, not to offend anyone but tarot readings are not the way to go as far as I'm concerned. You never know if you're getting a reading by someone with real "powers" or not so you can't base potentially breaking up your marriage on someone who is possibly a fraudster telling you that your hubby is cheating. As women we generally have strong instincts, if your feelings about your husbands fidelity towards you have changed, it's possibly with good reason. So many men get caught out cheating because they're not always that good at hiding things and because they assume their partner will be too trusting to even suspect them. Look out for signs such as unusual activity on the bank statement or credit card bill. If he's evasive when you ask questions about where he's been, don't push it but think about ways to get at the truth. Sometimes a guy having an affair is looking for an excuse to dump his wife for his mistress and will use your "jealous questioning" as reasons for a split up, making out like he's totally innocent but really glad in a way that he's got a get out clause...

Thinking on the positive side, may b there were reasons for his absence, but if u r sure something is up, as soon as he comes bk better keep an eye on his every move. See 4 any thing suspicious and when you think you have more evidence, just confront him. That wud b the best thing. But i just hope everything goes fi9 4 you....

I used to a lot I even had dreams. It was really bad. I would wake up in the morning with so much anger towards him. I don't know about the tarot readings thing. It was basically from my own past and I was holding it against him. Now if he didn't come home for a week (not saying he would ever do this) but I don't think it would bother me. I guess because since we have put our full faith in God and let him guide us and take care us that we know where we need to be or what is going on. I know if he was out somewhere he is going to be talking about the bible and just because that is how much love he has for the lord. I would look for other signs, like check his cell phone history, text messages, emails, credit card statements, savings balances etc. I would not call this spying you have to know if he is and if he is you digging into his email and stuff like that is going to be the least of his worry if he is cheating.