how will you tell to your hubby that he is not the father of your baby?
By czarina0527
@czarina0527 (307)
Philippines
September 24, 2007 6:29pm CST
give an opinion how will you tell to your husband that he is not the real father of your baby instead your baby's father is your ex-boyfriend?
sounds weird huh?
2 responses
@prettygirl_80650 (306)
• United States
24 Sep 07
in this day and age thats not to strange. If i were in this possition i think i would tell him and the sooner the better BECAUSE the child has the right to bond with the real father(who ever that is) not only that but there are health concerns for the child that might have been passed down from father to child and you should have a heads up as to who the father is.
@czarina0527 (307)
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
nice opinion! thank you. yeah your right he should know the truth. there is a secret that someday will be reveal.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
25 Sep 07
Its not too strange but its still pretty hurtful. I find it inexcusable if one is engaged/married. I have lesser qualms with it when its a steady relationship.
Just tell the truth to him now rather than later. Hiding this and letting it continue will only make the hurt worse when the truth is revealed. You may think it'll never be revealed, but let me tell you. The truth never stays buried, especially if its something terrible. Plus, don't think the man won't suspect something like this. Men are getting wise to things like this.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
25 Sep 07
Just tell him. There is no easy way to do this. First, if you try to convince the hubby that the kid is his when it really isn't, that's one lie and one trespass on him (you cheated). Second, if you keep lying and you let it go on, just think what will happen if he and/or the child find out the truth (without you). Third, don't expect anything from your husband. You lied to him. You cheated on him. Basically its one big betrayal. If he has any sense he'll know that and this will likely be the end of the relationship between the two of you (if it were me, I'd certainly end it).
