How to Introduce God to Your Children?

@itkasp (266)
Australia
September 24, 2007 7:11pm CST
It is our responsibility as a parent to build a strong foundation of faith for our children. One way to achieve this is by introducing God in our children's life as early as possible. My daughter is 5 months old and I try to introduce God to her by reading bible stories with her from her children's bible book, putting nursery songs from sunday school CD on her room before she goes to bed and pray a short prayer together. Just wondering at what age would you start introducing God to your children? and How did you introduce Him to your children? Please share your tips and ideas.. Thank you..
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12 responses
• Thailand
25 Sep 07
This does not sound like teaching, this sounds like brainwashing. What will you teach your daughter, that she is born in sin, that she must fear a god that will send her to hell if she does not believe in it, that she must must hate all to do not believe as she does. Teach your child love, teach her about the basic goodness of humankind and most of all teach her tolerance.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
What we believe in our Christian faith is that we are born as sinner. When we accept Jesus then we can be saved from our sin. That is how I teach my daughters to love others, as she already has received the greatest love from her God. This is certainly not brainwashing, this is our faith that by God's grace only we can be saved. I do not and never will teach my children to hate others that have different beliefs than us. Thank you for your sharing.
• United States
25 Sep 07
I agree with Chiang_Mai_boy, although I also agree with you, the discussion starter, that it isn't right to hate other groups, ect. I wouldn't teach my child about religion or anything of that nature unless he or she asked me about it first. Then I would tell all about the subject. I would teach my child about many different cultures and religions if he asked and was truly curious. I have been to many churches in my short life and I've only had bad experiences with them all. I was pressured by family members to be baptised and all even though it just didn't feel right to me personally. By trying to instill those types of things to a child at such an impressionable young age, it could backlash on you later on.
@Zhukov (106)
• Norway
25 Sep 07
Early if you want a strong blind belief, just think about what you say, never teach anything but god, cause if you read the bible they will think everything in it is true, then they will turn out to be adults who belive in noahs ark, superman and santa claus.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
Everything in the bible is true. Thank you..
@Zhukov (106)
• Norway
26 Sep 07
Wrong, the bible has been re-produced many times through history, there are some chapters wich are added just some centuries ago, wich means heathens have changed the holy book, its imporant to know what you read.
• Kottayam, India
25 Sep 07
They look unto you for their character building, so be careful as they may notice your behavior.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
You are right. Hopefully my life is a good testimony of living the truth.
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
You're right. We have to introduce God to our children at an early age. I remember when I was still in my younger years when my mother would let us hear the Sunday mass without fail. We even had to pray the rosary every 6 o'clock during the month of October even if we didn't understand why we should do it. Now that I'm also a mother, I bring my 1 yr. & 8 mos. child to church every Sunday. I'm so happy to see her sing the "our Father".
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
1 Oct 07
Hi Dorisday1971, Yes, I believe God will do amazing thing in our children life, when we have a faithful heart to Him. He certainly has done and is still doing it in your child ;) God Bless..
@Ramsakha (205)
• India
25 Sep 07
Children learn easily what they see their parents and other members of family are doing. In our house we have a small temple. We sit there and do puja (Prayers) every morning. My both grand daughters watch. They follow it and do puja in their own way.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
Hi Ramasakha, You are right, children do learn from example of their parents. It's so wonderful to know that your grand daughters see you pray diligently and finally follow to pray by their own.
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
I started introducing my daughter to God as early as I remember...I started slowly....when she was just a baby of one and a half year old, i'd pray for her just to familiarize her before going to bed. By the time, she's 2 years old, we'd pray short prayers for saying grace, before getting up and before going to bed. By two and a half years of age, she started attending pre-school, she already has a habit of praying and has started enjoying going to mass. It's wonderful to see the outcome....when children are prayerful and has a strong foundation with their religion....they are fully aware of their gifts such as love, joy, understanding, sharing. Having a strong foundation of faith is like having a strong character background....it also boosts their morale and self-esteem....and they value respect and others. You are doing a good job right now....reading bible stories to her and praying are a good start. Keep it up! :D
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
That is so wonderful on what you do to your daughter. I'm so touched by your sharing. So wonderful to learn that God blesses what we do and does amazing work in our children. Yes, pray is the best way to start introducing God to your children. Thank you so much for your sharing
@Neriz69 (1093)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
I think that's the best way to do it. To start early, lay the foundation as early as you could. In my case, I have to find God in me first. At this point in my life I'm still learning and hopefully that I may share the good news to my family later on.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
Hi Neriz69, We are all still learning in finding and obeying what God wants in our life. I pray that He will show you the way to Him and we will hear the good news first. All the best.
• United States
25 Sep 07
Kids learn about God first by how there mom, and dad act. So your life is the best testamony you can show to your children. If they see you love God they will want to know about God, and will come to you, and ask questions. See the big problem people have is tring to make there kids want to know God. And the child looks at mom, and dad, and sees the life they live. So in short are you teaching by word or deed. I teach by letting people see God in me, and it never fells they always want to ask questions, And God gives you what to say to them when they ask you.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
You are absolutely right, we as the parent should lead by example. I trully hope that my child will be able to see God in my life. Thank you for your advice. God bless you
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I haven't raised children, but I think God is introducted the way you are doing it. But following your faith and reading stories. Children learn by example and if you follow your faith, then it will be natural for them to learn from you.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
You are certainly right. Children do learn from example. I guess she will mostly learn from us, the parent, on how to live our faith. Thank you
@elemental69 (1561)
• Ireland
25 Sep 07
In a way I started introducing my kids to God and the Church when they were baptised, and bringing them to church on a sunday morning. My eldest son who is now 8 years old, asked for a book on bible stories when he was 4 years old and started school. I went straight into town and bought him a childrens first bible that was full of bible stories. I started off reading the stories to him at bedtime and he would talk to me about them and ask questions about each one. Now he reads them himself. He found them very intriguing, and so did I. And I was also amazed at the interest he takes in the bible. He is already getting excited now because he will make his First Holy Communion next May.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
My daughter has also already been baptised and we started bringing her to church since she was 1 month old. Praise the Lord for your son's interest on the bible and congratulation on his first Holy Communion. God bless.
@shy_gal (235)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 07
Hi itkasp, You can bring your daughter to the church every week, let her join with the kids at there as well. Exclude from this, you can tell her that place is call church when pass-by. I also do this to my nephew. When i pass by the temple, i will tell him becaouse i am Buddihist. Then we will bring him to the temple when he was 2 years old. So at now, he will pray when he go to temple and tell us that is temple when we pass by while we are not notice about it.
@itkasp (266)
• Australia
25 Sep 07
Hi Shy_gal, Yes, I have bring my daughter to church every week now. We started to bring her since she was 1 month old. But, I think it is too early and she is still too young to join Sunday school. May be when she is about 1 year, I will enrol her to Sunday school. It is good idea to tell your children of the place name, church or temple. I also tell my daughter when I organise her that we are going to church. Wonderful to know that your nephew has already able to pray by himself.
@Galdim0r (28)
5 Oct 07
Is not a violation of human rights to FORCE God into children's faces from a young age? I believe the synonym for that is brainwashing. Why not let them reach a reasonable age, and then let them decide if they want to follow a religious path or not? Children are very easy to leave permanent marks on from the ages of 3 to 12. Surely it is not fair to coax them into believing when they cannot even distinguish between faith and logic?