who can forgive these things?

@cudgel (216)
Nigeria
September 25, 2007 4:54am CST
With the bible pasage, (Luke 6:36-37) and all these, i am confused. He was my Uncle but raped me while i was living with him. Now i am on my own but always remember that whenever i set my eyes on him. Also, my Boss who will punish me without season and reasons and will not allow me being promote. yet i dont know how to understand that bilble verses on forgiveness of a thing. When i was a child, my mother neglected me because my suposed father will not accept his pregnancy then, to cut the long story short a church take me for adoption after my careless mother put me to bed; now that i am okay on my own based on well nurishment of the church that adopted me, i think i have everything a click whenever i need it. its quiet funny that my both parent could say they had resolve and being seeking my favor to forgive them, imagine how long i am now 27yrs old. maybe i should say the worst part of it is my oi friend who will without care sleeping arround with even using my motor, money to seduce other girls; now that i cought him red-handed on my bed doing it with my so called closed friend. what a hurrible thing. well, i need your advice if at all its possible for one to forgive all these.
2 responses
@kitty1234 (1476)
• United States
5 Oct 07
It is difficult to forgive, but this is the only way we are free. When we forgive another it doesn't mean we have forgotten what was done just that we no longer carry the hate with us. Clearing our spirit of hatred helps us to live life the way it should be lived. Maybe now you can not forgive them but with time the hurt will be less and you will have a chance at a second life.
@cudgel (216)
• Nigeria
6 Nov 07
Kitty: i really appreciate your contribution inhere, God bless you. Happy posting
@Zhukov (106)
• Norway
25 Sep 07
Wow, that is pretty serious, i would kill my uncle, your own family doing that, man...that guy got no honor, he deserves nothing and he proboly done it to others too. And you should beat up your friend too.
@cudgel (216)
• Nigeria
25 Sep 07
Thank you Zhukov: i really dont just know how all these can just go like that. yet i dont know how to retaliate, but foriveness issue is boreing too. Yet i appreciate your feeling for me and your contribution in here