have you ever feel that, your just being used?

Philippines
September 25, 2007 4:57am CST
my friend thought that the guy he been with for a 2 years is big lier, well my friend she have a money, base on her story the guy is so inlove with her.,i dont know but i feel something strange,well after along time we havent seen eachother, now that im back to town sh suddently open abouth a lot of things from them, before she told me that the seemed perfect.but now she told me abouth some negaqtive things about the guy.and it takes time for her to realised that she just being used. in any cercumstances i have some, not to a lover but from some of my friends and people closed to me.
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3 responses
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
yes and it is sad..when we are in the situation we are blinded and we do not really see the truth,sometimes we say "he love me" and yet fail to realize that you are only being use. I was used and maybe emotionally abused but I'm over it now. I moved on and I have a happy life now with my wonderful husband.
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
yah i think all of us had experience that.. things come for us to learn from it. and im glad that you already move on.and live your live happy. thanks
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
There are lots of opportunities out there, we can never be sure of who we are dealing with. As for your friend, she has to open both of her eyes and her mind. Nobody deserves being used, I suggest that she do her own observation or investigation of some sort. I have been used also, but I drop and leave them after finding it out on a very short time. I don't wanna look and act like a fool being with them, so I dump them immediately wihtout saying any words..
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
Sorry for the late correction, the first sentence should be read as "opportunists" and not opportunities..
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• Philippines
28 Sep 07
hi, thaks for the views, i realy apreciated it.. you are right.. thaks again and have a great day.
@brijlesh (273)
• India
25 Sep 07
ya, not only one time but, i feel this many times and in job many one uses me.
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
it happened to me too, many times, but i guess we can learn from it. to be srong and better person.