World Vision Philippines?

@vicki2876 (5636)
Canada
September 25, 2007 12:31pm CST
I have a few questions for anyone who may know about the charity or the true state of child welfare in the philippines. As I know MyLot has many users from there I thought maybe some people here would know. The thing is my daughter after seeing several informericals wanted to sponser a child. So about a year ago she did and she is from the philippines. Over $30 a month. The other day we got a progress report and found the child is in grade 5. Which for her age fits the grade she would be in if she was in Canada. Also her writing was excellent, better than my daughters as well as the english. For one year she did great!?!?! The only section she left blank was the question on how my daughter's sponsorship of her has improved her life. Hmm? So I was wondering? The informerical lead us to believe we were sponsoring one child not a program. Meaning this child had not received anything before we started sponsorship. That doesn't appear to be the case at all. We thought she had no water, food, clothes etc. But it appears she did and she had school, books, uniforms, etc as well. It seems my daughter's money hasn't improved her life cause she left that blank. We can't send the child anything that can't fit in a regular envelope and can't be money. In the commerical I have seen dolls and stuff being sent to kids and how happy it made them. Okay?? Weird? Also I see that many people in the Philippines have access to the net. All her pictures were of her in a jungle. So I am wondering what is it really like for childern there. Am I being tricked into thinking it is worse than it is? I wanted my child to feel good about her choice to so this but even she had many red flags when we got the progress report. I want her to feel good about her choice but would like to know if she really making a difference to this child or it is just a huge charity, like if she was giving money to the heart and stroke association or something? Please inform me of what is really going on if you know to help put my concerns at ease. Vicki
4 responses
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
hi vicki2876. i am from the Philippines. honestly, i am quite disturbed by your presentation about child sponsoring through the world vision. i went to check the profile of world vision and it's true that it's a world-wide program aimed at organising and working for the well being of all people, especially children through emergency relief, education, health care, economic development and promotion of justice. in addition, it is a christian organization. thus, i have no doubts about their intent and sincerity in undertaking this program. on this regard, your interest and voluntary help was a nice gesture in expressing your desire to share the blessings you have. on the other hand, children who have been benefited from this program are being required by world vision to keep in touch with their sponsors such as in your case so everything would be monitored. while there may be favorable results and progress reports being submitted, there are certain things that need clarification and follow-up. i believe that anything could be well-discussed between the world vision and the sponsors themselves. may i suggest that you contact the organisation and express what and how you feel about child sponsorship program, its updates and accomplishments. in fact, world vision has committed to making sure your support helps those who need it most. i hope this suggestion in anyways could encourage us more to continuously support any programs that may alleviate the condition of more children throughout the world who need our support.
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• Philippines
26 Sep 07
truly i was quite disturbed but not offended at all. if i were in your shoes i would have done and asked the same predicaments. there was nothing wrong about your worries or doubts. any contributors or sponsors for that matter have all the rights to know where and how the money is channeled through and utilized. i just hope and pray that world vision would facilitate your request for a follow up to the status of the child you sponsored. again, in behalf of the Filipinos, my deepest appreciation and gratitude goes with you and your daughter for the valuable help you have shown. please contact the world vision Philippines right away to monitor your sponsored kid.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
26 Sep 07
I am very sorry you were disturbed by my presentation. I didn't want to offend anyone but wanted advice about what I was feeling. I was concerned and was looking for help here by people who know about it so we can feel more positive about being sponsors. We do want to help those who have less then ourselves. I think your right that I need to discuss this with world vision to get a better understanding of how we are really helping this child and decide if this is the type of charity we want to support or if there is something else that would be of more value. There are children dying of hunger and sicknesses. That to me is more important than education. Or like in her report apparently she has gained nothing cause it was the only section blank. Not to offend anyone that I feel that way.
• United States
25 Sep 07
I would carefully investigate any charity you give to. Its easy for a charity to pull on your heartstrings on a very real problem, but where did the money for the glossy videos, etc come from? Sometimes people volunteer and make them but not that many. I recommend choosing a group on a smaller scale to send money to. This way, you know that the money is going to help people more directly. There are church missions that work directly with kids in various places but you do not hear about them because they are on a smaller scale, but they directly impact lives. What I think would make a bigger impact would be yourself starting a scholarship for a a child or two. The cost of living is quite a bit lower there and you might be able to afford to pay for a partial scholarship to afford a parent to send a gifted student into a specialty school or a more full time school or college.. You may not think that its a big deal because you may not be taken a child from the streets to be having a warm meal, but you will help someone be a future doctor, leader, teacher, etc. rather than simply feeding them. The other thing people forget is that although its a poorer country - people with "nothing" are growing things and eating chickens they raised. so its all relative about what being a "have not" is. To really improve the situation - not to meet suburban american standards but to create people who are going to make sure the children of others get fed is not to rely on outside charities but to do anything to make sure that our donations are helping children become the leaders of tomorrow and not merely just another warm body so to speak who is no longer hungry. If your daughter really also wants to make a bigger impact, why not adopt a family or child that is local to you? You can get a name from a church or other group. There are many people in your own city who are hard working but due to disability of a child, medical bills, and hard luck are having a hard time getting by. Sometimes grandparents have to raise their grandkids also. The $30 a month that you are sending to the philipines could put a turkey on the table at thanskgiving, buy the kids school supplies, and buy the little extras a family needs to grow. Food pantries will give children canned soup and boxed foods but not usually fresh fruits and vegetables. Anyways, she can make a positivbe impact on people that she would have the real potential to see how it impacts. And also, I think it would encourage her to commit random acts of kindness. Its easy to send money to someone that is far away and is a piece of paper so to speak, but it takes humility, and character to help your next door neighbor
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@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
25 Sep 07
Thank you so much for your post. I was thinking about something else that may be better for us. We are actually one of those lucky families that get a meal given to us at thanksgiving. We don't have much here and I am a single mom to three childern. We are blessed to get support from our community because we don't have much. That is why I thought that we could give back and help someone who is worse off then us. I don't have any money to send my kids to school to be doctors so though I realize it is important for childern in those countries to get that education I don't feel moved by it when I can't do that for myself or my childern. Though I know what it is like to be hungry and I would like to help a child not know that feeling at least some of the time through our help. We are truely blessed to be in Canada and whatever sufferings we may go through are in no comparsion to other childern around the world. I thought we could help a child meet needs that I and my family already have met, not needs that I still have myself. Thank you for the advice on looking for something on a smaller scale. Maybe I can find something we can feel more attached and connected to.
• United States
26 Sep 07
My cousin-in law lived in the Philipines and they lived like kings on their meager salary. So giving a kid that extra there is very cheap - that $30 would probably go a long way if in the right hands versus going to a "general fund" and getting eaten up by marketing costs. I really admire you asking for help/accepting help for your family. Sometimes its more difficult for people to accept help than it is to give people the opportunity to grow by helping you. And thank you for your generous spirit to "pay it forward" to someone else and send the good energy on to.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
I'm not sure if this would help, but am from the Philippines so I know how things work here. As for the whole topic, there are indeed children who needs financial support, those less unfortunate that don't have any money but wanted to stay and study in schools. Most of them does deserve to be in school, since filipino children are intelligent and are all eager to learn. If you would allow, please post the name of the group or the infommercial where your daughter has supported. That way, we'd be more aware of the authenticity of it..
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
25 Sep 07
Thank you for responding. The organization is World Vision.
@lgwlong (199)
• China
26 Sep 07
your dauter do the right thing ,yeah ,there are still many childs in the wrold to need help,especially in the poor country ,even the basic food cannot afford to them